....someone of the opposite sex contacts you and start a friendly chat, ask personal questions and as soon as you mention your "other half" he/she becomes bitter and backs off, as if you have been "misleading" them?
It happens to me quite often...the object of my Love is no secret to anybody who reads my info, and still...
2007-09-03 18:32:08 · 20 answers · asked by Jesus is my Savior 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
of course the question also includes when it is someone of the same sex to contact you and behave the same way....
2007-09-03 18:34:35 · update #1
Just to make it clear: Chico (aka Rob, my Love) knows I chat with friends of either sex on IM, so does he and we don't see a problem with that. And we talk about it too.
Max: if my question is annoying you, why bother answering it?
2007-09-03 18:44:49 · update #2
Thanks for your support, babe (Chico), I knew you would understand.
2007-09-03 23:29:02 · update #3
So, that's how it is. I suppose you are going to tell me that the engagement is off after I already bought the genuine zirconium wedding ring. You microbiologists are so fickle.
2007-09-03 19:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not annoyed, more like amused.
Even if (though) your intent in asking the questions my be to mislead them (a little); they're the ones that made the assumption about you...
2007-09-04 01:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Always Curious 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always known you have a boyfriend but it has never stopped us from becoming friends and I hope I've never said anything to make you think I am bitter. I hope we are still friends.
Jim
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2007-09-04 04:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right babe. The people annoyed with this question are idiots for answering. Why do it? Go be annoyed somewhere else. Nuff said.
2007-09-04 05:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Chico Escuela aka Rob 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Evidently those that shut down as soon as you mention your 'other half' had ulterior motives! They didn't want to be 'just' friends! Not on IM, but I have had similar instances in emails!
2007-09-04 04:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by Me 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
usually if someone asks you personal questions online they are perverts looking for a little action, so they feel as though they've wasted time trying to talk to someone that's already taken i suppose
2007-09-04 01:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gloria,
The trolls are everywhere..Some of them are innocent, some funny, be sure, some serious...
I always mention that there is someone in my life...Yes, it is true thatthey use internet in order to arrange their personal life, either seriously, or not.
The problem is getting serious when these trolls invade your life, and you are friendly with some of them, and they take in in wrong way...
Then, they start making your life a hell...
And the problem is one...lThey create misunderstandings between you and your partner...
2007-09-04 01:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by Leonarda 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
maybe you're talking it the wrong way. Maybe they're not so much bitter as they are disappointed. They probably wanted to be your bf.
2007-09-04 01:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I have another too. If you want to contact me that's cool, it's all about clean fun.
2007-09-04 01:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On this forum, there is just no sense in getting annoyed.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-09-04 02:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋