If u r being repeatedly sexually assualted like fondling, oral sex & even penetration sex while u r in sleep forcely by trusted family female members & if u go 2 any authority like child help line or anybody else, they want u 2 prove ur each & every statement by urself only. Specialy when u r disbelieved only coz u r a boy(late teen) & abusers r trusted family female members(like 'younger mom', sister etc.) who r incredibly violent as well! Even in case of injuries u r asked 2 prove that it is done by family members, when a 3rd party eye witness is absent & u do have a life threat from ur own family & d abusers r trying hard to keep an eye on ur every move & when u r scared enough that half of ur life has been fetched away, having nobody's support but don't wish to be anybody's entertainment center, ur friends in d same area have been threaten 2 leave u else 2 face extreme reactions, ur neighbours have been betrayed against u by ur family members that 'u r a bad boy', rowdy, vagrant, idle etc. 'deserve whatever is done with u', since ur family members on their own tell their sexual adventures. They even pretend 2 be physicially abused by u by showing false injuries 2 neighbours REPEATEDLY from a long time. So d neighbours r against u, taking ur abuse as their entertainment instead to help u in order 2 isolate ur any cry 4 help. Nowadays ur family members r telling ur neighbours that u r writing a suicideal note, their names included in order 2 blow up everybody against u. So d neighbours r planing 2 murder u or trying 2 file a fake police complaint that u have raped ur family members or something like that. If anybody outsider (child help line or anybody else) comes 2 rescue u, ur family members disbeliev u by simply telling u r mentally ill & they have done nothing wrong & d outsider believes them too & then starts asking u same stupid Q? repeatedly like "would ever any trusted family members do so?", " why u r being targeted?", "what they r doing with u?","how could it be possible?","why u want to stop it?"etc. Which makes no sense & u have no more explanation 4 it. So putting hidden tiny video cameras is d only option available. I live in Mumbai, India, if anybody of u, who r in power to help me 2 get 1, please contact me immediately. I shall be grateful to u OR does suicide is d only option available 4 me? Coz situation seems 2 be getting out of control.
2007-09-03 18:19:35 · 15 answers · asked by shakalakasan 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Believe me u got to seek help b4 the situation gets out of control.
If the elders in ur home do not believe u,tell other elders or a teacher who trusts u. I can understand how u feel when all discriminate u while u r suffering in the silence.
Or maybe runaway to a home where u can save urself.Do not let this situation continue.Browsing ur profile ,tells me u r suffering more than abt 6mths with this problem.
Come on speak up,may god bless u and be with u always !!
Try the mini camera,if possible.
2007-09-03 18:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by *♥sugar♥* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My heart is breaking for you right now. I don't know how you could possibly prove that it is family members doing it to you -because obviuosly there will be no third party there! Sometimes the authorities are just jerks. Is there anyone else you can stay with? Do you have a friends or maybe a Pastor at a church? If you are over 15 you can petition the court to become an emancipated minor, but that doesn't really help the issue of where you can go to live... I wish I could give more advice but I will pray for you. Hang in there and keep reaching out for help. Someone will listen.
2016-05-20 23:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a difficult time understanding what you had typed. It would have been easier if you had typed it out. I don't know if this might be part of the reason why you are having difficulty proving yourself. If you are not speaking clearly, you might not be getting your story across. You should never have to prove abuse. If they don't believe you, then talk to someone else. Talk to anyone, talk to everyone, until someone believes you. This is a serious thing and you should not have to fight to be believed. You should not have to be the one getting proof. The authorities are the ones who should be doing the invesitgations. It is natural for the people who did the act to deny and point the finger at you. You need to find someone you can confide in and so that they can support you.
2007-09-03 18:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by starwberry 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the tiny hidden camera will work(but it might help) you sound like you need to just get the hell away from that whole scene...if you're late teens-join the army or hop a bus or just go find a new life. Maybe that would be a lot more fun than killing yourself or living with all this drama, eh?
2007-09-03 18:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by jemrx2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It may be dream coming from past life or so.
Please consult a good ayuvedic doctor.
Seek blessing of a saint or visit some temple/religious place.
Recite Hanuman Chalisa (if u r a Hindu) or whatever ur religion permits.
Do Paranayama regularly.
Join Art of Living or Baba Ramdev Yoga classes.
Do something for entertainment.
Go on a leave to some place for 2-3 weeks away from your home.
2007-09-03 18:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by sagarukin 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Request the guardian's to contact a good family counsellor, and also ask the abuser also to join they have good methods of evaluation and coming out with the facts.
Contact a good Clinical Psychologist.
2007-09-04 03:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in your late teens, it may be time to leave the roost, I did when I turned 17 and never looked back. Good luck
2007-09-03 18:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act crazy, tell them to get off you. Intimidate them, without physically hurting them. And talk to a cop and tell them all this, ask them not to tell anyone. Or go to a safe house, they are experienced in similiar situations.
2007-09-03 18:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Find a job for your qualification and move away from your house.
2007-09-03 18:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by thuppakki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
run!!
the more u stay there the more u r going to be tortured. u MIGHT end up being shizophrenic.
the cameras might help, but be careful.
by the way where in bombay do u stay?
2007-09-03 18:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by hot_cool 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋