help me please!?

Question

could i possibly be pregnant?
okay so lets make a long story short, my boy friend fingered me the week after my period, now i have been feeling breast soreness( it comes and goes), really tired. and idk I'm kinda nauseous, but i think its just cause I'm so scared, and I'm only nauseous when i think about it really. he could have had pre- come on his hands so idk. i'm really freaked. so please do you think i am? my friend thinks im like making it in my head.

oh it was about a week and a half ago.

oh and im not that young thank you.
and i read in 17 that you can get pregnant by just stuff like that.

and thank you already for all your great advice =)

Answer 1

Yes, if your b/f had precu* on his fingers and then put them in your vagina, you can get pregnant. I am amazed at how ignorant some people are (not you; some of the people who answered your question).

I don't know if you got pregnant. You have to take a pregnancy test. When people say that it is unlikely that you got pregnant, they are only talking about statistics, which mean nothing. If only 1 out of a 100 girls get pregnant that way, what difference does that make if you are the 1?

Condoms are only 86% effective at preventing pregnancy or STD's. Again, how does that help if you are in the 14%? If you are going to continue to have sex, I would encourage a combination of b/c pills and always a condom also. If your b/f touches his penis, then he has to wash his hands before he puts them in you.

B/c pills, of course, do nothing to prevent STD's and they also, do not work at times to prevent pregnancy. If you use both b/c pills and condoms, you are pretty safe to not get pregnant and less likely to get HIV. Of course, abstinence is 100% effective in both areas.

You sound like a level headed young woman. Pregnancy and HIV is not something to take casually, as so many young men and young women do. You want to be SURE in the future and not take "probably" as an acceptable answer.

My best wishes to you.

Answer 2

The first thing you need to do is go to the nearest store and buy a pregnancy test. Some of them wont work because it has to be a certain amount of time before your body takes its changes. So make sure you pay attention to the box, dont just grab the first one and run! I would get a box that has two tests in them. Go home, its best to take a sample when you first wake up, but really any time of the day would work, do one and then a few days do another. Look at the results of both and go from there. If it turns out that you are, you need to talk to your parents and explain to them what happened, you also need to talk to your boyfriend if you havent already. He may be a little freaked, especially at your age. In most cases you cant get pregnant like that because the sperm has to go so far. Like I said, just keep calm, and the first chance you get, go get some tests. Everything will work its self out, just dont do any drugs or anything like that, ok. Good luck!

Answer 3

IF HE FINGERED U THERE IS NO WAY THAT HE COULD'VE GOTTEN U PREGNANT FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THAT U GUYS DIDN'T HAVE ACTUAL INTERCOURSE. AND A MALE'S SPERM DIES INSTANTLY THE MOMENT IT IS OUTSIDE OF HIS BODY BUT CAN LIVE UP 2 48 HRS. (I THINK) IN A WOMAN'S BODY. SO UR FRIEND COULD BE RIGHT. U'RE PROBABLY JUST AMKING IT UP. AND IF U STILL WANT 2 BE ON THE SAFE SIDE JUST GO GET TESTED JUST 2 REASSURE URSELF THAT U'RE NOT AND U CAN GO BACK 2 BEING U. BUT BE MORE CAREFUL NEXT TIME AND ALWAYS NO MATTER WHAT ANY BOY SAYS PROTECT URSELF. CUZ U DON'T KNOW WHERE THEY'VE BEEN AND U DON'T WANT 2 CATCH ANYTHING.

Answer 4

Intercourse and penetration are the only way to get pregnant--fingers may introduce germs and you may have an infection--but you are not having a baby---go to the doctor and see if you have an infection from his dirty hands. Something is wrong--you playing with that guy is one of the things that is wrong---so tell hot hands to keep his fingers away from you. SO get to a doctor as soon as possible. Hope all is OK real soon

Answer 5

It's very unlikely. If you're really worried then I think you should take the test, just to put your mind at ease. Maybe you could find out about going on the pill.

Good luck.

Answer 6

CUQUI is wrong....as long the stuff is not dried up, the sperm are still alive....it is possible, but not likely.....has a girl ever gotten prego from this before...you bettcha....but, as i said, it is not likely....wait and see if you miss a period....if so, take a test

Answer 7

I doubt it.. but if he was handling himself, anything is possible. Wait and see if you miss your period, then test. Wouldn't that be a story to tell???? lol kinda wierd but very original, you concieved without having sex... anything is possible tho!

Answer 8

No, there is no way you could get pregnant that way. You are too young for any kind of sexual activity. Your boyfriend should not be touching you that way. Where are your parents? You need more supervision.

Answer 9

if he only fingered you, you should be fine, it may be an infection, from bacteria on his hand, but thats if there is any problems down there, but soreness, is probablly uhduh puberty. psh, your friends right, you're fine.

Answer 10

You can't get pregnant unless actual intercourse occurs. If he just fingered you, you're fine.