I'm shy, have a hard time communicating, have alot of friends, but very few close ones. Never really speak unless spoken to, but not a good communicator. Always by myself at school,.
I'm a loner!!!
is that good or bad???
2007-09-03 16:40:15 · 8 answers · asked by West Jefferson Alum 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Good and bad are subjective terms.
Are you happy being introverted?
Be happy being what you are or seek change.
2007-09-03 16:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like being alone alot of times, then being a "loner" is good, yet, if you hate being alone, then being a "loner" is bad. It is what you make it. Get a job that forces you to talk to people, then if you would like to become less shy that would work. It helped me alot.
2007-09-03 23:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Introverted Mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its good to be by yourself, thats how you learn to be independent because in the real world you wont always have someone there to hold your hand and walk through the woods with you...im kind of like you except id consider myself a good communicator i speak up and im not afraid to open my mouth if something is pi.ssing me off..but i wasnt always like this, i used to be just like you but then i jus got sick of it..the only advice i have for you is to lose the shyness..and i consider being a 'loner' a good thing..just as long as you know how to talk to people :)
2007-09-03 23:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty much the same though I have a motto.
Give me a dog, my gun and a cave and I will be happy.
Well I'd have to have some internet to go with it.
I like people but I like to have time to myself.
2007-09-04 00:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by DeathsToy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! Sometimes I feel like it's a good thing, but other times I feel lonely. e-mail me!
2007-09-03 23:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by imthiskid246 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever works for you.
2007-09-04 00:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by Candy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good. Next step is "hermit."
2007-09-03 23:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by speranzacampbell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since uve noticed it.... start talking more! :)
2007-09-04 00:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by miss understand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋