My BF wants to do oral on me, I REALLY want him to but I'm afraid of how it'll look "down there" ...where you pee (girl part) what color is normal? pinkish or darkish brownish?? I'm not talking about the vagina... I just want to know if I'm normal lol!
2007-09-03 16:10:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
It depends on what your skin color is. Brown-skinned people will have it darker, but there's nothing wrong with it. Just like how brown people have darker nipples, and lighter people have pinkish nipples and pink labias.
Men (at least the ones I know) like female bodies and vaginas in general, so don't worry about not looking normal. Just keep yourself clean and you will be fine.
2007-09-03 16:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Movies are probably the best to start with but romantic walks would be good if you've been together for a while and she's that kind of person. Take the girl's personality and go from there. Is she fun and daring? Theme park. Is she sweet and romantic? Beach walk Is she a carefree wild thing? A club Etc, etc, etc. Good luck!
2016-05-20 23:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by verna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand that. Women are told continuously that the vagina is ugly and smelly and have read a few examples in this section, yet women are supposed to accept men the way they are. I don't personally have a problem with accepting mens privates just the way they are, but women would like the courtesy extended to them too.:)
All vaginas(outer parts) are different. Some are pale pink, some deep pink, and some a deep chocolate pink. It's all normal.
2007-09-03 17:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Shivers 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are. There's a lot of variation with genitalia for both men and women, and chances are, you're perfectly normal. Light pink to dark brown is normal, short labia to long labia, large clits to small: it's all normal. Guys are pretty forgiving of the women they're sleeping with anyway, so don't worry. Just lay back and enjoy!
2007-09-03 17:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by random6x7 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just take a shower a short time beforehand and you will look and smell nice. If he's into it, he'll love it. And so will you!
And there are many different colors of skin--for all parts of the body.
2007-09-03 16:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Steve-O 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
AS long as you maintain the proper hygiene, you could use a feminine wash before the "deed". Coloration does not affect your attractivness right? It all depends what you feel for yourself. The natural color of your skin will be the color of your genitalia and for whatever it is worth, it doesn't matter. Believe me.
2007-09-04 03:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by archangel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is an amazing Dinner Party that was organised by Judy Chicago. It was full of table settings for a party of celebrated women. Each plate was designed in the flowering shape of her labia - all of them were lovely. Ours labias are as beautiful and endearing to us, as they feel they are. Worry more that your young man knows what he is doing. He is supposed to be performing one of the most delicious forms of love-making known to woman. He is privileged and in no position to be picky.
Judy Chicago's book "The Dinner Party" should be in your library, or at least in the women's section of a good bookshop. Have a look at it - see what you think?
2007-09-04 01:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
His face is going to be too damned close to you for his eyes to focus on anything darlin. Don't worry about it. The boy is going to be more focused on an entirely different sensation than visuals.
2007-09-03 18:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by the old dog 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just make sure you're clean down there.
It wouldn't hurt to do a bit of trimming either if you have a lot of pubic hair.
2007-09-03 19:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jakedzz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are UNDER 18, wait until you are an adult and married. Try doing your homework instead.
2007-09-04 07:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋