There's this guy I've known and I kinda like him,and he knows it.
So at first,he was trying oh so hard to impress me and stuff but know he knows his got me,hes like taking his own sweet time cuz he knows me "in his clutches"
He's gone away for the summer so I havent seen him in 2 months.I've been talking to him online though and hes like"Yeah...Puerto Rico's great...lotsa hot girls here..."
and hes OBVIOUSLY trying to make me mad.
So while he's in Puerto Rico I'm thinking of coming up of some ways to make him jealous...but he wont be back for a bit so I can only do it by somehow IM-ing him.I know its childish but I mean...nothing like letting him know he has some competition right?
2007-09-03 15:30:57 · 14 answers · asked by krystal_engel 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
The way to make him jealous without sounding like you are absolutely crazy is to be honest. Seriously... dont keep bringing things up like "oh I saw this cute boy and he likes me...blah blah blah" Say little things like.."ehh didnt do much today, hung out with some old friends" Or "met some new really cool people" and remember when he comes home...play hard to get, dont let him think you are gonna be there at the drop of a hat when HE is ready. When he comes home and asks you to hang out, say you'll get back to him on it, or even say...sorry but yo have plans with some friends that night or whatever. That way he will learn that you arent gonna do what he says/when he says. Being a strong and independant woman will be a turn on for him...trust me! Good luck hun.
2007-09-03 15:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by Nikoale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as the competition stays healthy is ok, else u'll end up risking ur relationship. Don't tell him u slept around with another guy & stuff - leave alone it making him jealous reflects badly on ur own character for something which u haven't done... I mean I'd rather get blamed 4sumthing that I've done rather than have fingers pointed at me 4sumthing that never happened coz of me...
You can tell him u took up a salsa class or cookery class & were impressed with this man who was soooo good with his job & wish to meet him a couple of times & know him more... He'll surely feel the sense of competition also he might take up da class just to prove himself better & it works for u both ways - u get him jealous plus u get him to cook for u :)
2007-09-03 22:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isnt the smartest idea. Its pretty much childish....
But if you want to make him a bit jealous, tell him, this guys been wanting to talk to you or that you have been chitchatting with a guy and he would like to take it further.
2007-09-03 22:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you going to do if this drives him away?
Moreover, just 'cause he's lying and manipulating, do you want to give away the upper hand by being essentially dishonest with him?
2007-09-03 22:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long distance relationship built upon lies. Can't get much better than that.
He's not worth it sweetie. Find someone who shows you some respect!
2007-09-03 22:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by sorwho? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Im him, let him do it first. Make him wait about five minutes before you answer and then say "Oh hey, sorry going out with Joe, ttyl. That should do a lil sumthin sumthin.
2007-09-03 22:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Say that you went to the beach or store or something and this guy came and asked you out and say your pretty sure your gonna say yes to him..but are still considering it.
2007-09-03 22:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by _~^*^~_ Ninja Fighter_~^*^~_ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wrong. This relationship, if that's what you can call it, is doomed if all you can do is play mind games with each other.
2007-09-03 22:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by rtanys 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
say there is this really cute guy that moved in 2 houses down from me.....
2007-09-03 22:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by 2bit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need .. that is too childish ... just be gorgeous urself ..if u try to make him jealoues, he might even doesnt care .. too childish
2007-09-03 22:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by lucky_1179 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋