see me and my girl are in a long distance relationship we been together for a year and half
2007-09-03 14:57:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
define "alot" - if it is really a lot then maybe she thinks you are just hassling her and she really has nothing new to say. if it is a couple of times a week - then she may have issues. My wife spent a year overseas - I called her twice a week. If I rang her every hour she would have been anniyed. So unable to answer without further information.
2007-09-03 15:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Grumbles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships need alot of work in order to keep it going, but you should probably not call her so much.....it will push her away. And if you suspect her doing something behind your back, then ask her....one of the most important things to keep a LONG distant relationship going is communication. So just take your time and let her come around to you
2007-09-03 22:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by ney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. No one likes to feel like someone's checking up on them constantly. Would you like it if someone was calling so often that you couldn't get anything done just because they want to make sure you're doing what you said you were doing?
To have stayed together as long as you have, you really should trust one another, it's one of those things you really need in a relationship.
2007-09-03 22:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is the type of girl that is not into long conversations on the phone or you maybe calling her at the wrong time i she just may needs some space. It could be something that is bothering her that you may not even know abut. Talk to her and tell her how u feel
2007-09-03 22:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Little Older, Much Wiser 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are calling several times a day, could be that is hard for her. For me, if I get a lot of calls, I can't get anything done. I have a hard time multitasking. Maybe try to set up a time to call her when she is available. Communication is key, at the right time, tell her how you feel.
2007-09-03 22:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by beckaanne2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly long distice realationships dont relly work best thing to do is probably end it and shes prbably just annoyed you call so much but if you do really wanna be with her then you should call her less maybe like evry other day
2007-09-03 22:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I donno the hole story but my guess is that she's just needs a lil more time on her own to think things out maybe she's just affraid of comitment or maybe (if ur this far into the relationship) sex.. i whould just give her some time and if she lives far away try to see her more (if u can)
2007-09-03 22:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Katie W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are very much into her, but she does not like all of the attention, ask her why and ask her if there is something going on and if there is someone else.
2007-09-03 22:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lloyd S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're calling her too much and she just needs a little space!!GIve her a break, shell call soon
2007-09-03 22:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by nastypavi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes just probably annoyed.
i wouldnt loose her trust.
just back off the calling a little bit.
2007-09-03 22:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by im anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋