my wife is bi and has a gf on the net that she chats with. This woman is planning to move near us. We have two girls and we are both living with disabilities. We live with my wife's disabled dad who controls everything.. He disapproves of her behavior and has threatened to cut the cable for the net....(my wife and i pay for it) He has turned her family against her.. her sister who is holy roller has condemned us to hell for this. This sister own the house we live in, and told us today that we can't us the computer for this sinful thing. What is your reaction?
Just for your information my wife is bipolar and her therapist wants her to make moves that are made by my wife. Rational therapy.
2007-09-03 14:45:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Listen..being as though you guys are disabled..there are many programs you can join that will help you with housing..you should never live with relatives..they take your money, talk about you like crap..they are worser than strangers out in the street..no compassion whatsoever..get on that computer and start googling and calling every single place down the line and do not stop until you get the help you need..and please be patient..there are others who are in worse situations than you guys..Pray Pray and Pray some more...You will be fine if you "listen" and have faith..and remember faith requires "works"...Good luck
2007-09-03 14:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From what I have read in your question, I gather that you have no problem with your wife's bisexuality. With that as my flag pole, your father-in-law and sister-in-law are both out of line to be interjecting themselves into the personal affairs of your marraige. Your sister-in-law is in her own rights for disallowing internet use for your wife's online social life, only because it is her house. Unfortunately, she may not realise that her "controlling" actions may be doing more damage to her sister than good. You say your wife is bipolar. the cruelty her family is showing her will not help her get better... so perhaps a move is in order. If you are comfortable with your wife having a girlfriend, so be it. It is your marraige, not theirs so the two of you need to regain controll of it and tell the nosy "participants" to but out and focus on their own problems.
2007-09-03 22:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get away from you controlling father in law as soon as possible, and tell the sister mind her own ******* business.
2007-09-03 21:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by Infamous Twit 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your father in law and your sister in law are right.Your wife behaviour is wrong.Lesbian is prohibited by God.In line with islamic teaching you have 3 graded actions e.g
1)give advice to your wife that her behaviour is wrong in line with her own religion if it is needed please invite her clergy
man for giving religious advice to her
2)make a separation of bedroom with her for several periods
for giving a chance to her to introspect herself
3)give her the last warning if she does not change her abnor
mal behaviour you will divorce her.
2007-09-03 22:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that the only one who can really control your life is YOU
stop making excuses and obstacles
when there is a will there is a way
2007-09-03 21:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just wonder how people like you two find each other. what are the odds. so *** up
2007-09-03 21:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋