does sex like work if you don't have your period yet?

Question

Does it like work?

Answer 1

If you are asking about yourself, then I'm assuming you've not started your period yet, and therefore still very young. I am also assuming that you're considering having sex. If you are, then, it doesn't like work, it works.. (Which really doesn't describe sex.) It "works" as in you can still get STDs and become pregnant. Since you're likely younger than 14, is that something you want to be stuck with the rest of your life-- A baby and/or an incurable STD? Gee, that would be swell to tell future boyfriends-- I had sex when I was only 12 or 13 and now I have both a baby and genital herpes. Yeah. That will keep them around.

Besides, what would your parents say? The thoguht of my daughter having sex when she is still a child (never mind before she is even married) terrifies me. Keep your pants on until your wedding night. This way, you can be fully giving yourself to the man with whom you vowed to be with for the rest of your life. That would be an awesome gift.

Yourworstnightmare's comments were interesting. He commented on the poor use of "like" but said that iPods "****". Interesting. I have an iPod video and it has shown no interest in such activities.

Answer 2

like work or work.

being LIKE work means "trying to work" yet NOT quite being able to work, so I'm "like" confused

yes. it works, sorta,
You might not get all the enjoyment out of it since your body is not quite ready or developed enough to "feel" it the way you should.
But it will in the future when your body starts to change and the hormones are there to "transmit" pleasure to your brain and your nerves start to seem to grow (a sensation caused by the hormone growth)

I'd wait if I were you otherwise you could end up getting the wrong idea of sex.

such as:
Not doing it for yourself, but for someone who's pressuring you and really doesn't care as much as he says he does.

and it can hurt, without the max amount or ANY of the pleasure to match (due to the lack of hormones and the fact that your probably pretty.... how should I say small down there.)

experiment sure, but you don't HAVE to go all the way for ANYBODY

plus. the guy thats pressuring you probably doesn't know how to have sex without getting you pregnant. (with that in mind I'd say ----- STAY AWAY)

always use condoms and remember condoms can't protect you from STDs like HERPES or CRABS

its not illegal. as long as the person is not an adult of 17+, but parents CAN charge other kids with molestation, I'm unsure of the laws concerning that, but as a strict guidline for everyone I'd suggest you only consider this action with a person no more than 3 years older than you

Answer 3

What do you mean by sex works?

Others have had sex before their first period; sometimes resulting in pregnancy. You will not know when your body ovulates for the first time. If anyone tells you that your first period is sterile (meaning you don't ovulate yet and can't get pregnant) DO NOT BELIEVE THEM!

You are asking if sex "works" meaning if you will enjoy it; I don't know. That depends upon the circumstances. It is difficult to predict and your expectations have a lot to do with it.

Answer 4

If you have not had your period yet, then you have no business even having sex at all. Don't screw up your life with having sex too young. Wait. It is the best thing. Having your period has nothing to do with sex. It has to do with having babies. You can still have sex without having your period, but it is not recommended in my book. This is a adult activity.

Answer 5

Yes it does work. The penis goes in and it may even feel good. U CAN GET PREGNANT or AN STD and if u are sooo young that u dnt have ur period or even know how sex works u dnt need to be having it. I am serious. It can really throw ur body off if ur not physically ready for it.

Answer 6

Is the person you are wanting to have sex with the same age as you? If so he may not be able to get it up and that may cause problems for you both.
I wouldnt really worry about sex until you get your period to make sure you are ready

Answer 7

It does but not as strongly because not all the hormones have been released.

Most girls get their period at 11-12, so you're crazy to be having sex that young.

Answer 8

If you are asking, you are most likely too young to even be thinking about it. If you have had sex and are worried about becoming pregnant, yes that could still happen as you could be at the verge of your first cycle. It is also possible to catch a sexually transmitted disease.

Answer 9

Yes, it still "works" and you can still get pregnant.

If you haven't had your first period yet, I would say you are "like" too young to be worrying about this!

Answer 10

There're yes and no parts to this answer.

Sex can be made to work from the male rapist's viewpoint with a three-month old baby. Just watch the news and every 2-3 years you see a new trial and (thank God) sentencing.

But from the girl's standpoint, we have to move forward. If by "work", you mean can it be done physically without too much pain and harm, then yes, any time before your period that you are physically large enough to take the penis in question without too much ripping and tearing, sex can work. Anal sex is a lot the same.

However, perhaps you mean more in working physically so ripping and tearing isn't so much a concern. Yes, then, sex can "work" in that you can be started down the maturation path and your "parts" can be able to open up properly to take the penis in question without any ripping and tearing but also without feeling unnatural compared to how it feels after everything is ready.

But... perhaps you mean "work" in the sense of providing you pleasure? If so, then it's hit or miss until some time after your period starts. You will be able to judge this point with masturbation. Clitoral (or clit-oral, if you don't mind a mild witticism, one I've never heard anyone else make (so either I'm clever... or really stupid...)) stimulation is very easy to judge and if you are careful with fingernails (!) you can judge it without any risk of injury or pain. Once that starts working, before or after having your period, you can definitely "get something out of" sex even if you don't do or get no pleasure from vaginal sex. Vaginal masturbation is trickier since you risk harming yourself, creating and building up scar tissue inside your vagina, which can limit the rest of your life's pleasure from vaginal sex. Sexual pleasure is usually a pathway: make part of the pathway difficult to follow and you may not go to the fun end of the pathway very often. In short, daddy's screwdrivers make passable ramming implements, but their sharp handle edges may rip you up inside worse than a pedophile getting hold of you at age 7. TAKE CARE with it. You only get one of them...

However, it is pretty likely that you will not experience good vaginal sex until some time after your period has become worthy of the name rather than irregular spotting and flow.

But, if by "work" you mean work the whole way through and leave you pregnant, well, like others said before me, once you even near menses, you can become pregnant even though it is very unlikely the baby would last long. But pregnant at 10, even for a month, or two, would be incredibly vivid in your psyche for decades to come.

All that said, there is another side to sex, the one that makes it mean so much to people in love. The mental side. Mind you, a slut can feel greatly satisfied mentally. I do not mean to imply the mental pleasure comes only to married women! But sex is the one, single, solitary thing in this life you usually only share with the person you love. (No matter how much you've shared it with others in the past. I mean at the time you are with the person in question.) Most people take a deep mental pleasure from that alone that is comparable to the physical and "baser" mental pleasures of just doing it.

That you could perhaps feel even before your period starts. It is exceedingly unlikely you will believe you did when you are ten years older, but at the time it could possibly be very real and very intense. Probably not, unless you have sex at, say, 8 when you are still in the part of your life when you don't say anything bad about anyone if you can help it (because it's not nice, of course). In that stage of life, you do experience pleasure at pleasing others, however that might be done, and if it were couched in those terms, you could be manipulated into taking that pleasure. Not likely a boy (or man) would bother, eh? But it could happen. If, however, you are nearing or beginning menses, you are probably past that stage and into the "she's a whore, I don't know why Sean likes her" stage. And in that stage, one doesn't draw very much pleasure from pleasing others. Or so it would seem... So I wouldn't rely on getting a great deal of mental pleasure unless the physical pleasure occurs for you since in that selfish, self-centered stage of life, usually only one's own pleasure gives one pleasure.

Boy, that last stuff sounds pretty cynical and nasty. But... give it some thought and think how apt it is for many of your acquaintances. Then think back into yourself and honestly judge its aptness for yourself.

I hope that's not too comprehensive, that you didn't just want "yes" or "no" 'cause it was a lot of typing!