I'm SCARED!!!! CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!???

Question

I START HIGH SCHOOL 2MARROW AND IM SOOOO SCARED! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. IM NOT THAT POPULAR OR COOL IN SCHOOL AND MY NEW SCHOOL IS HUGE AND I DONT KNOW WHERE ANYTHING IS!!! CAN ANYONE OFFER ME SOME HELPFULL ADVICE?

Answer 1

when i was in school i would have so much anxiety that i could not sleep the night before. it's never as bad as you think you will be laughing and having fun as soon as the first bell rings just be your self

Answer 2

Be friendly and open- chat to anyone who is near to you. First impressions count, and putting aside shyness for a day can secure you lifelong friends. All the people in your grade are in the same situation, even if they are attending with a group of friends- classes will be mixed up, and most people are open to chatting to someone new.

If you find yourself lost, don't panic- laugh about it, and ask a teacher or another student. You're not expected to know everything on your first day, and you'll most likely be given information that will help you to find your way around.

Answer 3

Fear is an emotion-an emotion directed toward the SELF.

Have you ever noticed that those who suffer most from fear and worry are "wrapped up" in themselves?"...I'm afraid of this ..." and "...I'm worried about that . . ." is the way they talk.

This, then is a Selfish age! And the more we become concerned with ourselves, the more afraid we become that the self will get hurt. We become fearful of what might happen to the self. Our misdirected minds coddle and pamper the self.

In many instances this uncontrolled emotion of fear leads to grave consequences-to real desperation. There is the fear that "something is wrong with the brain"-that a nervous breakdown is impending, that even insanity might result.

In other instances this uncontrolled emotion results in feelings of inferiority, in mental inadequacy, in sex impotency. One fear leads to another until our mental outlook and our physical health is permanently impaired!

But there is a way to correct this problem. There is a way to conquer fear!

There is a direct mind-body relationship in every individual. We must direct and coordinate both mind and body before we can really achieve happiness and conquer our fears.
There is a direct connection of digestion and health with the mind. When the mind is fearful, it sends out messages to the various glands and organs to be prepared for danger. The organs fill the bloodstream with materials to enable us to ACT to meet the danger. When we procrastinate or are indecisive, our body becomes filled with unused material. Our glands are needlessly drained. Constant self-induced fears soon cause the glands to function abnormally. Our whole body suffers, and with it the personality and even the mind.

Unconquered fears are the cause of a major portion of diseases. Of course, proper food habits, proper exercise and elimination also play a part in over-all health-both mental and physical.

When our bodies become filled with toxins that should have been used up in ACTION to meet real dangers, we find ourselves "nervous" and "upset." People often say: "It's my nerves." Nerves are not wrong. We need them to live. It is what we have done to our nerves that is the problem. We have frayed them through overuse arising from uncontrolled fears and worries. We have turned the nerve mechanism created for SELF PROTECTION into a weapon for SELF-DESTRUCTION.


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Good luck in overcoming your fears

Answer 4

it will be new to your classmates , too.

the first day is usually about finding your locker, your classes, the classrooms, learning the teachers names. So you will be talking about that stuff, with everybody else.

If the school is that big, they may well give you maps. If not, well, it is a GREAT excuse to ask a stranger a question.