Im so sad..?

Question

1. I feel friendless
2. I feel like nobody likes me
3. I dont think I make a difference in this world
4. I feel useless
5. I feel unloved
6. I feel like no point of living
7. I hate myself.....

PLEASE NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS, FOR THAT WILL ONLY MAKE THE CAUSE WORSE.
you see, I like to be home all day on the computer. I dont like being near people. Why? I like home, but not going places where a bunch of people there I know. Why? Being in my home is the best place my heart feels comfortable. Being in a place with people, close friends, or even relative, I feel like im gonna faint. Why? I hate how I speak. It sounds like a baby just learned to talk. Why? PLZ HELP OR THIS WILL STAY INSIDE OF ME FOREVER.

Answer 1

I think you need to talk to a friend, if you have one, if not maybe you could find a minister to talk to. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, if you have a family member you can talk with, you need to do that. It is obvious that you need to talk with someone about all of these emotions that are in you. If you believe in God, please pray and ask for guidance. I really think that if you can, the best advice would be to seek medical help. I hate that you are so down on yourself. I am sure you are a sweet young lady and are very lovable.

Answer 2

Sounds like depression and a bit of paranoia... You don't need a bunch of friends to be happy or content but 1 or 2 would be good for you ..The problem is you must sift through the many that might hurt or use you to find the gems in your life.. You have to see it as worthy and you will find that it will strengthen you in the end... Believe it or not you will find some that will appreciate you for you and give you support you just have to find them...

I think you are self conscious about your high pitched voice that is something you are going to have to work through and fight against..I bet you are a beautiful person and have allot to offer others!

I never suggest drugs to alter behavior but I do advocate counseling if it's needed and can help..Sometimes having a neutral person to talk to and seek advice from is helpful!

Answer 3

I am worried about you. You may be suffering from a social disorder and depression as a result of the disorder. Please talk to your doctor. My son suffered from all the above that you mention here. He has a chemical imbalance and this is often rectified with the proper dosage of anti depressants. There are many out there. It may take trying more than one until you find the one that helps you. Please, see your doctor as soon as possible and tell him everything that you have written here. Ask him if he thinks antidepressants might help you. He may also suggest that you seek therapy. My son sees a therapist and it helps him to talk about his feelings. The world needn't be such a lonely and painful place. Now that my son is on medication, is able to be somewhat more social and feels more relaxed when around people. He was certain that no one liked him and that people were talking about him behind his back. If he were in a room with strangers and he saw people talking quietly, he was certain that they were talking negatively about him. The truth is, he is very intelligent, he is funny, pleasant and a very sweet, and compassionate young man; and people like him very much. He just didn't believe this. My heart is heavy for you and I truly hope that you will not take this lightly and seek the help you need. If you are young, please talk to your parents about your feelings. Keep talking until someone listens....and again, be sure to talk to your doctor and ask for his help. God bless you. I will pray for you.

Answer 4

1. You feel friendless because you never hang out with them
2. You feel like nobody likes you because you cant even like yourself
3. You dont think you make a difference in this world becuase you dont try to
4. you feel useless becasuse you do nothing but go on the computer
5. you feel unloved because you dont love yourself
6. you feel like theres no point in living because staying home all day is not actually living
7. You hate yourself because you dont love yourself.

the problem here is that you need to learn to accept yourself for who you are. Once you do that, you'll find it easier to make friends, get out of the house, etc, etc.
Everything else should fall into place.

Good Luck.. I'm sure you'll feel better in no time =)

Answer 5

You are allot like me. I'm also an introvert. My wife is an extrovert. Look up these traits and you will with out a doubt say Ah HA! Introverts are people who have few friends, but, they are life long friends. When we go to a party with lots of people in it, it sucks the life right out of us. We come home exhausted and don't feel like getting out of bed in the morning.
Extroverts are way different, they gain energy from a crowd, when they get home they are bouncing off the walls. Can't sleep because they have to call their billions of friends up to tell them what a great time they had. Their friends are not as close to them as an introverts friends, but it's made up by shear numbers!
Listen, I am going to tell you that there is nothing you can do with this trait but, accept it, and learn from it. Use it as a gift, not a crutch. I still must endure the crowds for my wifes sake, but, she too makes time for my needed solitude. One or two people won't take your energy away, it will feel much better. Get out and enjoy life with one or two other people. Good luck, and don't forget, look up this Introvert/extrovert business!

Answer 6

First of all I'm sorry about your situations and like you and I'm so feeling sad because I had no job and I'm always to stay in my house but sometimes I can go out with my friends if they having a free time and I'll felt some my cousins,my aunts and the rest of my relatives they not really to close with me and I think they not become an important with me when it to talking to each other and I'll felt of being an out of place or being an offended and for me I'm just to keep my praying to God because he was gave me a lot of strength,he was gave a lot of blessings,he was guiding whenever I'm going in the some places and if I had my problems and asking on how to helped on it and I think you should to pray a lot because this is an overcome of your sadness or should keep to answer of our these hundreds of questions there and we want to helped and solving of their problems and this is good if we will asking to them sharing about their and their problems and I think don't think of about our problems and let's fight it and to face it our some challenges in our lives

Answer 7

You are very depressed and I know all the feelings you are having. You didn't mention how old you are, but I would definitely see a doctor about it. You need to talk to a professional about your anxiety too. Either one on one or group therapy. It's hard to think about going, but it will be the best thing you'll ever do for yourself. Please go soon before your symptoms get worse. It's worth the effort. Consider it an investment in yourself. Believe me, I know....I've been there.

Answer 8

I can understand what your saying...I feel the same as you alot..... its just because your not used to being friendly and talkative with people. I know it feels easier to stay home but that still makes you sad .. right.. .so heres what u need to do... even if you think its hard... u have to start making little conversations with people.. like if your buying something.. think of some question to ask... and then the person will answer... just keep doing things like that and you will feel better talking to people.. you just have to try to be a little more outgoing.. people are probally as shy as you are.... you just have to be a little brave and say something to them.. then there happy to talk to you...... I know u can do this... if u need anymore help email me.. ok... also when you talk to people try to smile and be happy to talk to them this helps alot..... other people like friendly people

Answer 9

Aw.......don't worry! I used to feel very sad too. I was so shy at school and even though I had friends outside of school. Inside of school I felt that nobody cared for me. Please feel better soon and always remember that everyone is special and everyone is unique and I'm sure that you have a family that cares about you so much.

Answer 10

maybe try to talk to a therapist or someone. I'm sure you are really ok, just going through a rough patch. Hey, I like being home myself, so don't feel like you are so alone in your feelings!