At what point is it that a woman grows up, and begins to appreciate good guys?

Question

Women have always told me, "Keep on being a good guy, and you'll eventually find a woman who wants that."

The question is, when does "eventually" get here? I see that most women who are 30, 40, and older, still intentionally date abusers and cheaters, while I remain alone.

Answer 1

Ashley made a good point there so feel free to give her the ba. What I want you to understand is that what we feel is a "good guy" doesn't mean THATS a good guy. Realize what really seperates the boyz from the man is a simple thing, its called principal. Now I'm not talking about you won't cheat (good), or you won't hit her (excellent you the man!), or you'll treat her love-dove all the time (thats so CUTE;). What I'm talking about is PROPUSE! Something your willing to die for, fight for, live for, push everyone else aside and love. Its about giving purpose. If you all those 3 things and yet you don't have a purpose to your life outside loving her, the bad boys got you. He has a purpose, yea it isn't nice, nor right, nor even worth a sh!t, but its purpsoe none the less. It could be screwing over the system, people around him, himself, it doesn't matter, he has a direction. So they love that thing, becuase it easier to love a bad boy with a direction (doesn't mean a job or anything, just a sceme, friends, arrongance) just as long as he doesn't act lost, us good guys have a tendency to act lost. THis scares people away. So just figure out more about this world, understand love a little more, and get to understanding what it is that we need from each other, because it isn't aways nice. Sometimes you have to grab a persons attention and brow beat them, shoot good parents did it to some of us, were comfrontable with that. BUt few parents spend all that time love-dovin us, that just makes alot of us uncomfrontable. But what ashely said is the biggest factor on that, so ba that smart lady!

Answer 2

You need to look for better women then. If the only ones you are seeing are ones that date the wrong guys, befriend these women and show them the real guy they need to have!