Going through a bit of messy divorce .... still fresh hurt and anger on his part .... but what do you think of a man who walks into a room, picks up all the family pics, takes them out of the frames, tears them up and puts the frames back where they were?
2007-09-03 12:09:59 · 11 answers · asked by girlielikesfun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That he is simply showing his contempt and trying to **** you off. Oh and yeah...being an *** too. He will regret doing that in time.
2007-09-03 12:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is hurting real badly.
Anyway you guys can just sit down and talk about the issues?
Maybe Divorce is not the answer at this time. Maybe just get separated or just live in different rooms, while going for therapy.
Divorce is like going though a DEATH!. It's the most awful thing next to death. I will hope & pray you can both work this out.
Good luck
2007-09-03 19:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by italianbronxgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a man too walk in and remove the pictures of you two . It is obviously he is in a lot of pain,hurt,rejection. Plus its a messy divorce that you both are hurting one another. If you have children or not you need to sit down and look at this picture of you two. So you can tone it down and work out the kinks a lot better. Being so mad at one another can really get out of hand! I hope you can work things out and Good Luck to you.
2007-09-03 19:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by seawife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not a happy camper. One day he will regret it.
I would like to know what gave him the right to walk into a room and destroy property. I hope that you had a restraining order. You could get him in to trouble.
I hope that you are both not living in the same house now because he could turn on you and hurt you.
I would talk to your attorney and have him informed by the court that his behavior is not acceptable.
2007-09-03 19:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mighty One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have kids in them he will feel bad later. as for the ones of you and him that wont bother him . it didnt my ex when he did it to ours.. the hurt and anger is part of what you go through alot more to come .just hang in there
2007-09-03 19:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a man with lots of anger. Under the anger is fear. He is afraid of himself, of you, of what he has lost. So recognize that he is fearful, and hurt, very hurt. He did all this to himself, you didn't do it to him.
2007-09-03 19:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is hurt and trying to make a point. Oh, and he is acting like a child.
It happens when you are hurt.
Let it go.
you will be free of him soon. If that's what he needs to do to get over it, then let him.
2007-09-03 19:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by candy'sroom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He acted on impulse and will regret it one day.
2007-09-03 19:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in PAIN. And I'll bet he still loves you.
2007-09-04 22:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by NY Buzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is close to end of his rope and wanted to let you know
2007-09-03 19:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by Meredith C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋