I am on a sports team with a guy I recently found out (through a mutual acquaintance) is a sex offender. Since he was convicted in 1991 prior to the tier-level system, there is no information available on the registry other than the conviction date and offense (sexual assault).
I am trying not to condemn this guy without cause. Even though ANY sexual offense is horrible, I'm hoping he just made a bad mistake when he was young, and he seems like an ok guy now. But (as a woman) I would really like to know more about what he did so I know whether to be cautious around him.
Is there any way I can find out what, exactly, he did? I don't want to snoop but I want to know if he slapped a woman's rear or raped someone... big difference.
Also, I was sexually abused as a child. Is it normal for me to not want to be around him because of this? It's not that I fear for my safety, but I associate his status as a sexual offender with the guy who abused me. Is this reasonable?
2007-09-03
11:26:04
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