We've only been married a few days, and out comes the bossiness.
Is there anything I can do, or should I just deal with it?
2007-09-03 10:56:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Am I the wife you're referring to? Because we all know you've got a few now.
You wanna know what you can do? TAKE OUT THE TRASH, you lazy Yak! That's a start! ; )
Did you give me the thumbs down, darling? You know what you WON'T be getting if I find out it was you... NO MORE BEER ; )
2007-09-03 10:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jelyol 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I have similar experience with my wife. She was very controlling before getting married but I overlooked it. She would control where I went, who I hung out with, how late I came home (on the rare occasions I was allowed to go out). Now that we are married it is worse. She openly tells me she is the 'boss' and I need to listen to her. Like you wife, if she wants something she will ask me to do it. Even though I work and she does not, I do most of the housework. This is clearly the relationship she wants. Happy wife - happy life
2016-05-20 06:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask her to stop being so bossy you are not her child you are her husband ask her if she would like you bossing her around IE do the laundry now and this way, make this dinner, go here do this and with no please or thankyou's I mean come on you married her this is supposed to be forever so you should be able to sit down and discuss this with her.
2007-09-03 11:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just going through a lot of stress becoming adjusted to being married. Ask her if anything is bothering her... or if there is anything you can do to help her feel more relaxed. If she continues on, plainly ask her what is going on. Try to make it through for a little while longer, and if it doesn't stop, tell her you aren't willing to put up with it any longer.
Another thing to keep in mind -- What is she being bossy about?... try to see it from her view...
2007-09-03 11:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no no no dont just deal with it. this is coming from a girls side(though im not bossy to my husband) but i know how other women can be and dont just deal with it and let her do it...because then it will never ever stop and she will just get worse. u just really got to sit her down and tell her u dont appreciate being bossed around. tell her u dont do that to her, so u dont expect it done to u. tell her respect needs to go both ways and to lighten up a bit. if she doesnt stop, then it seems she dont care too much about u...sry!
2007-09-03 11:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by baby_love_marybeth 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it's only been a few day's, I don't think it's going to work out, tell her she's too bossy, don't just deal with it, you can't live like that.
2007-09-03 10:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bossiness is listening to In-laws and not you. Deal with it.
Failing that, divorce her before you get thrown out of your house and home and have legal people dealing your business.
2007-09-03 11:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop whinging a be like the rest of us men, you get used to it
its called turning a deaf ear,
2007-09-03 11:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by mickjack 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you gotta do and remember im here if u need help with the moving of the ummm you know
*whispers* body!!
2007-09-03 11:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now U know the meaning of "4 better or worse".
2007-09-03 11:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋