scissorian section or regular birth for looks and sex after?

Question

I'm going to have a baby and I don't know which to do cuz I heard the scissorian gives you an ugly scar but if you have a regular birth it stretches you all out down there and guys don't like doing it with you anymore.

What do guys care about more looks or tightness?

Answer 1

if ur not afraid of surgery do scissorian section. less painfull for u and the scar isnt that bad.

Answer 2

I'm not a guy but I have questions for you: how old are you? do you use birth control? and why aren't your questions about the baby? You sound really young, because you can't even spell Cesarean (not scissorian).

You're more worried about "guys" not liking sex with you after the baby is born. As if there will be several more than one, and you're already planning for this!

Here's something to consider: surgeries leave internal scar tissue. Surgeries of the abdominal kind almost always leave scar tissue that over the years, winds itself around your intestines to the point that your bowel gets obstructed and then you'll need surgery again to remove portions of your bowel. Why put yourself through that if you don't have to?

If possible, have the natural birth and get your priorities in order. I don't want to offend you because I don't know you and I could say some really mean things, but I hope that one day you'll love yourself enough to be with someone who appreciates you for who you are and not for how tight your vagina is. If you became paralyzed after giving birth or because of some accident, what would you do then? There's more to life than sex, honey, and if you don't know that, then I feel sorry for you and your baby.

Answer 3

One wonders if the questionner is fit to birth a baby, their education is so sparse.

I had 2 c-sections (caesarian!!!) down at my bikini line. They healed well and though you can see them if you search, they're not noticeable.

If you have a regular vaginal delivery, and your baby's head is causing you to tear, the dr. may do an episiotomy, that is, cut the opening a little bit to help the baby come out. That is painful afterwards and it takes a while to get back to regular sex (or sitting down for that matter).

What's best for the baby? The vaginal birth. It squeezes the baby so fluids are expelled. Overall, the baby is healthier.

I don't think you are allowed to choose c-section or vaginal delivery. Only if your vaginal delivery is not progressing quickly enough or baby's head is too big, or you or baby become distressed, then, they will do a c-section. But they won't do a c-section on a first time mother just because she wants her vagina to remain tight for sex with guys.

Best wishes!

TX Mom
Mine are 17 & 21

Answer 4

It's a CESAREAN section (after Julius Caesar, who was supposedly born that way). And it's considered major surgery, so it's not usually something elective. Most doctors don't just ask which you "want" to do. If you have a c-section there's usually a good reason.

Cesarean scars are usually very low, near your pubic hair line. Most people can get away with wearing a bikini without it showing. And as scars go, they could be worse. Usually, when they're healed, there's just the slender line.

If you deliver vaginally, you may end up a little roomier, but you can regain the tone of your vaginal muscles by exercising them. (Use the same motion you use to stop urine flow.) The exercise is called Kegel exercise.

Hopefully, you won't have to concern yourself with what "guys" prefer; just YOUR guy. And if he loves you, he'll be able to look past a tiny scar or a little extra roominess "down there" just as we as women have to look past things like a receding hairline and a hairy back. The only thing you should concern yourself with is which option leads to the safest delivery and healthiest baby.

Answer 5

I already know what all of them look like. Way back in the day we all had our pics up, when everything was mellow and cool. Now none of the regulars have pics up.............. only few of them. OH FREDDIE. lol I had no clue who you were til just now. Nice to see you. Yep Irish is a redhead.. I sometimes want to dye my blonde hair red but too scared because I don't want to damage it! ps none of the regulars from back then are ugly.. it's the teens that are trying to take over this section that are not so great to look at and make this section boring. It use to be so cool here! Ah, oh well.

Answer 6

After you have the baby you can do exercises called Kegel's that will help tighten it back up. I do them all the time you can do them without anyone even knowing your doing them. I don't think you should do Ceserean unless you absolutely have to! Natural is always better! I personally dread the fact of getting a Ceserean because I have a large tattoo on my lower stomach and know it would mess it up.
But oh well!!! If thats what I have to do then its worth it!!! And trust me most guys aren't going to worry about how tight you are! Guys like anything!

Answer 7

As long as you do your kegals after birth you will go back to your normal dimensions.
The c-section scar is generally right by the hairline and is not something that most men notice too much. The one thing that happened with me was I had a vaginal delivery and I got BAD stretch marks right through the area where a scar would have been just from the sudden stretching from my son moving through the pelvis.

Answer 8

C-section does leave a scar and has a more painful recovery. Natural birth...of course it's gonna stretch you, a baby is coming out of there! But your vagina goes back to the size it was before!

Answer 9

having a C section for no reason is not a good idea it takes alot of time for you insides to heal and makes it harder to look after your newborn which is what being pregnant is all about plus once you have one C section it is possible never to be able to give birth naturally i had my baby naturally look no different then before i gave birth my hubby have never complained

Answer 10

Well I had a c-section and my scar is almost non existent now. You can barley see it, and it was so far down you could not even see it with low rise jeans on. However, I had to have one due to a breech baby and wish I could have experienced a regular birth.

As far as streching out "down there" you can get a husband stich when they stitch you back up to make it tighter, or so I have heard.

Answer 11

first of all it's cesarean section. and for some ladies i know, they say their husbands preferred having sex with them after they gave birth. and i have known women who have had c-sections and their husbands didn't mind either. it is really a personal choice, it's not up to what men like, it's about what u feel comfortable with.