well he was my companion now he found a chick with 3 kids... but he tells me that he still loves me... what would you do? not to hurt his feeling and mine...
2007-09-03 10:34:14 · 10 answers · asked by Mirage =) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him that you two are done and he made that decision when he got into another relationship. If he really loved you then he would leave her a be with you. If he can't leave her but still is trying to get with you then that makes you the other woman who he will eventually get rid of and stay with the girl he is with now. You will be the one to get hurt in the long run. Even if you do have feelings for him it is best to tell him feelings are no longer there for your own sake.
2007-09-03 10:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to make a choice..... seriously he cant play with you like that! He maybe nice and all but if it is in a romantic sense he needs to choose. If you teo are just friends thats a whole diff. story.... if he is with this other women just watch his back let him know what you observe and hopefully a whole lot willl not change... you can expect your time with him to lessen butit should be okay if he truely is your friend. You have to be the stronge one in the relationship....
2007-09-03 10:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by undecided 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor baby - truth is that if he is with someone else and wants to be "with" you on occasion, then he is cheating both of you.
He wants more than he's offering, he wants you both to be with him, but not willing to offer EITHER of you exclusivity. Do you know if he has told the other woman about you? Or are you his "bit on the side". Please do what is right for you - not just him. If your happy with this (but it doesn't sound like you are), you can continue, but otherwise give him an ultimatum "Me or her - not the both of us" and don't be willing to accept excuses for him keeping both like "But what about the kids?" or "She really needs me now" because he can always find an excuse if your willing to wait for him.
2007-09-03 10:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he decided there needs tobe a change, tell him your have other plans. I know this is hard . but maybe he will come back. But for some reason he left. Keep your head up and don't fall behind him..Good Luck Pat
2007-09-03 10:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you NO self esteem?
1. He left you
2. He's telling you that I don't want to commit to you, but ...
3. He wants to use you to cheat on the other woman
And you're not sure what to do?
Maybe he sensed that you have no core values and therefore wouldn't be insulted by his bad behavior. Grow up! And get that loser out of your life!
2007-09-03 10:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Just_One_Man's_Opinion 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure of what you sense to blame approximately. He did the deed and regrets it now. Then foolishly opened his mouth and informed you. it is all his feeling and his strategies and his difficulty. guess he in basic terms mandatory to vent to somebody and you purchased an ear complete. in basic terms be happy it become not you he have been given prego.
2016-11-14 02:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? Nothing. What should you do? NOTHING!! Dont go to his house!! If he really loves you then why is he with her?? Think about it.. Love don't play with other woman.
2007-09-03 10:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by twp007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just what type of relationship do you and him really have? Dont go over, he's using you.
2007-09-03 10:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
marry him and then brake up with him and take half of all his stuff
2007-09-03 10:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by bob j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so sorry but no... see ya.........
2007-09-03 10:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋