2007-09-03 10:08:14 · 13 answers · asked by K.A. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are no children and will not re-marry.
2007-09-03 10:17:12 · update #1
I think this is different from person to person.
For some people, the marriage was over LONG before any separation or divorce. If you feel you are ready to get back out there, then by all means go for it.
Chances are you won't find another serious relationship so soon anyway, so go out, socialize, have some fun!!
You just have to do what's right for you.
2007-09-03 10:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give yourself some time for yourself. Finding someone else to fill that void in your life really won't help you, most rebounds never work. People get into rebounds missing companionship and that loved feeling and think they found it in this other person. It usually isn't love, its just that person trying to make it like that with this other person. I somehow have the habit of getting involved with people that are coming out of relationships that move on to quick and there are always issues and problems. You would also be surprised at how many people seperate saying, "theres no way I want to get back with him/her" and then they do. Many times when we take time to ourselves we realize things we never did before. You may never get back with her, but I guarantee if you take some time just with friends or family you will come out of this a much more emotionally healthy person.
2007-09-03 17:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many people will say it's OK; but I don't think it is either wise or nice to do it.
I'd say end your relationship and get a divorce. Until you do, you are still legally married and then you'd be cheating. BTW, Be careful with rebound relationships...They seldom last!
2007-09-03 17:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Nena S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's OK, as long as you're sure that it's over.
A separation is supposed to be a time for second thoughts on the matter before the divorce becomes final.
If you're sure you're not going back, move on.
DO realize that you're not too stable right now.
You don't want to hurt yourself or anyone else.
Keep it light for a while till you 'find your feet`
2007-09-03 17:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no law stating that you can't date when legally serparted from your spouse...but you are not being fair to yours spouse if you agreed to work on your marriage and you start dating. If however you both know that you are not going to get back together...then I see nothing wrong with dating.
2007-09-03 17:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date but anything sexual is still adultery since you are STILL married. A legal separation is NOT a disillusionment of marriage, only a divorce is.
2007-09-03 18:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I think it is in poor taste. Just wait until the divorce is final. You are probably not emotionally ready for a relationship anyway. Give yourself some time.
2007-09-03 17:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by wondering 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you are still married, if you want to date, get a divorce.
2007-09-03 21:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by tannerlady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not right- you are still married
But go ahead and do it if you want to
You reap what you sow
2007-09-04 01:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Navyexwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you don't need no papers to date again maybe you'll find the right girl this time.
2007-09-03 17:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by jonathan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋