if so how much can we trust that feeling to be lasting?
2007-09-03 09:01:14 · 19 answers · asked by waggy 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
OOH-(hehe)-ooo yea
It is so possible to have an instant attraction to someone that it's actually frightening...
Let's just say there are ppl out there.... (to say it appropriately : ).
And these ppl will never go away; The extremely attractive ppl in the world will continue to be extremely attractive.
NOW the bad News:
Sometimes, perhaps a lot of the time, these ppl KNOW that they look good. Because of this, they often turn out to not look as good on the inside as they do externally. Therefore, this feeling of giddy attraction that we often feel, is not the part that really matters if your talking about a real relationship, EVEN if its a friendship.
Although it never hurts to have friends that are kind AS WELL AS hot, we see a cute face and even when that pulls us in, it is only a START.
Being in love...now THAT'S something that feels good
2007-09-03 10:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible to see someone across a crowded room and feel an instant attraction. Whether this attraction lasts or not depends much more on compatibility. I think a lasting attraction is made up of many things....the person's sense of humour, their interests, their beliefs, clothes and music taste all make a person who they are. And i believe that the instant attraction is happening on a subconscious level. Your subconscious mind knows something about the person you feel an atraction to and hence feels some connection to them. Some things cannot be explained but they can be felt. Trust your feelings because they come from your subconscious.
2007-09-03 16:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Giselle is Well 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, I personally have never had that sudden attraction to someone where it didn't work out well. I don't think just because you don't have a long term relationship with the person doesn't mean that it wasn't a true feeling. Personally, I believe those are the people who touch us the deepest and thats its because we have known them before, we're from the same source, if you've read Deepak Chopra....I think thats his name, you will know what I mean by the same source....
2007-09-03 16:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my instant attractions as i go with my heart
2007-09-04 13:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Gender Bender 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But no one knows how long that feeling can last. It is all based on how the person you are attracted to is.
2007-09-03 16:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by GOTHIC TARA J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - it happened to my fella & I.
As to trusting the feeling - enjoy it & make the most of it, but be carefull & cautious at the same time.
We're lucky, for us it's worked out - we're living together & genuinly see ourselves being togeather for the rest of our lives as we're soul mates, but I know this doesn't always happen.
Good luck.
2007-09-04 04:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mindless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens a lot. Whether or not it lasts depends on the other person's feelings
2007-09-03 16:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is, but the attraction would need to work both ways.
who knows whether or not it will be lasting that is something that you have too work on.
2007-09-03 16:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by louise d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can but there is a difference between attraction and love.Love takes time
2007-09-03 18:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by AFDEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most definitely. Taking it to another level is the real skill. Good luck.
2007-09-03 16:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by Cherrypicker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋