There are these guys and I really like both but I cant decide. They are so similar so Im turning to astrology?

Question

I am a taurus born May 13. There are two guys who I really like and I can't decide which I want to be with (just dating of course nothing like marriage at least not yet). I've been seeing both of them, plus I've known them both for 4+ years. They are both pretty similar and they are all of like the major stuff I want and need in a guy. Both of them have shown that they want to get serious and I couldn't possibly date them both seriously. The only way left to decide that I can think of is astrology. The first one is Taurus born April 30. The second is a gemini born June 5. Which would be a better match for a boyfriend/possibly more? Which one should I choose? Oh and they are both really attractive so that can't possibly be a deciding point!

Answer 1

I've dated a Taurus and a Gemini before but I'm a Pisces. It was better for me with the Taurus because the Gemini was selfish and self centered. And he would turn on me at any given moment like Jekyll and Hyde. He broke my heart. But I'm still in love with the Taurus.

Answer 2

Taurus and Taurus love compatibility
This isn't the most exciting union ever, for both are domestic creatures who prefer safety to adventure. They are also not always sexually compatible. The woman is more sentimental in love, the man on the contrary is more terrestrial nature. The Taurus- man would rather prefer an other men's company. The Taurus- woman can't bear a deceit or inattention. On the other hand both share a fondness for money, are hardworking, loyal, and affectionate. The perfect solution is for each to develop some outside hobbles and friends without raising the possessive hackles of the other. The connection can and be pleasant, but marriage is under the question.

Taurus and Gemini love compatibility
An unpromising match, though at the beginning Taurus responds to Gemini's sparkle and Gemini is intrigued by Taurus's uncomplicated directness. The Gemini's representatives are usually double-faced ,changeable people. The Taurus' representatives are tend to a constancy. Taurus is attracted by an artistry and riches of imagination of the Gemini. However The Gemini are irritated by the Taurus' slow reaction. Taurus with the innate need to possess will never be able to hang on to the unsettled Gemini. Gemini loves change and Taurus resists it. Their sex life is gradually affected by the Gemini moods which are very changeable. Gemini behaves as the playful, mischievous little kid one minute and the next minute he/she will turn basic and animalistic in his/her sexual appetites. The typical Taurus reaction to this action will probably drive him/her into someone elses bed. This is a tasteless connection and there are not the best prospect for a marriage.

Answer 3

Both of them are attractive? Yes, because they're pretty playful and hard to get. I would say the gemini is a slippery, nervous, attractive man and he's way more intellectual (not necessarily intelligent) than the April 30 one.

The Taurus guy is an ambitious, attractive and steady. He is likely to want to rule and dominate.

As for compatibility, both are not ready to settle down (being numbers of fun) and i can see why you see similarities between them.

What I can say is that the Taurean is more suitable for you compatibility wise - the gemini is better off as a friend.
You can bet that the taurus will initiate things with you, while the shy gemini will tease and flirt.

Take your pick.

Answer 4

Contrary to popular belief, a moment of time has its own unique qualities, whether that moment is of an event, a birth, or the crystallization of a question, as in "which one of these guys should I make a more serious commitment to?"

Astrology is more than a parlor game. Serious Astrologers can sum up any given situation based on the heavenly positions the moment a question is asked. The art is in how the astrologer reads and interprets them. The astrologer who understands the code of the heavens can provide concise answers to concrete questions asked in earnest. If not, you may call that Astrologer a charlatan a fake and a fraud.

You asked "which one should I choose?" I calculated a chart for the question based on my location and on the moment that I read and fully understood what was being asked. Simply put, this is what we astrologers call a Horary chart.

Here is what I found.

The Ascendant (rising sign) and its ruler describe YOU the person asking the question. In this chart an early degree of Capricorn rises YOU then are ruled and signified by the planet Saturn. Saturn (as of yesterday) has just entered the sign of Virgo.

The early degree of Capricorn rising on the Ascendant coupled with your ruling planet, Saturn, in a empty degree of a new sign indicates that YOU are not entirely prepared to *kill off* either one of these guys to the exclusion of the other. Or put another way, the chart is showing that YOU are not yet prepared or in the position to act.

The Moon in this chart shows what YOU are thinking. The Moon is in the sign of (split, two-faced Gemini) positioned in the fifth house (of fun and recreation) square the Moon's Nodes.

The Gemini Moon / Node connection is telling that YOU feel a spiritual link or have a special union to each of these guys. Therefore you're spilt and confused and conflicted because you risk estrangement or wrecking the peace of your friendships. Again and much like your ruler Saturn, the Moon in this chart shows that YOU are neither prepared or in the position to act on your current feelings, as they are much too scattered at the moment.

There is an old time-honored rule and caution in this particular branch of astrology that says when 00, 01, or 02 degrees rise on the Ascendant, there is no use in the astrologer judging the chart.

This chart has 01 degrees of Capricorn rising, along with your ruler in 00 degrees of a new sign and the Moon in the fickle mind-changing as though it were the wind sign of Gemini.

This time-honored rule I spoke of does exists for a reason, here it tells me that YOU are neither in the position to act nor are you prepared to act.

Not yet anyway. Isn't that correct?

Answer 5

ASTROLOGY!!!!! for gods sake (insert your favorite God here) that is the worst way to go about it. Very insulting too. That is like flipping a quarter in the air and have them call heads or tails. Astrology is fake and also very suggestive. I would not base a relationship on astrology since what you are doing at best is choosing by luck. How would you like it if some one turned you down based on a flip of a coin really or draw a piece of paper with a name on it from a bag. That is exactly what your approach means.

A better approach is to do the trial by fire. You see, in life when everything goes well everybody is your friend. Everybody stands by your side and agrees with you. However, when trouble arises a lot of your so called friends run away like in a sinking ship. So, what you must do is to see how these two boys handle pressure. Unfortunately I'm out of ideas at the moment so you must create your own situations. Don't go too wild. Maybe go to the movies but say you already bought the tickets. When you get there say something like arrrg I can't find my tickets. Then observe what he does. This may mean missing the movie since you never had the tickets in the first place. The idea is to see how the handle small issues. The one that handles the issues the best will make the best boyfriend because relationships are about dealing with problems and compromising.

Answer 6

I catch myself doing that too! Checking their signs to see if we are compatible! But at the end of everything what does that mean? Are you going to find your true soulmate with your heart or from horoscopes! If so, they have a great compatibility chart in astrology on yahoo!

Answer 7

the Taurus no Geminis lol