My girl friend and i dare i say had unprotected sex a few times but not to point of ejaculation this happend only once but we are both pretty sure none got into her vagina. Now i know you will read this and say to your self omg she is pregnant but we are both pretty sure she is not but just to be safe she is going to the doctors to have a test done so that we can both be in piece of mind. Now to the point what i wanted to know is does losing your Virginity bring you into a cycle as her periods were very strange she would come on for 3 weeks be of for 2 days then on for another week but since we did it she has bin off for almost a month, and the other thing is do you kno of a method instead of an abortion if she is pregnant as she would only be like a month gone is there like a pill you can take apart from the morning after pill whitch she did not take that would destroy the growing fetus if she was pregnant? thanks (Y)
2007-09-03 05:40:02 · 11 answers · asked by dave j 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sex, protected or not, should not change your cycle. If there was penetration, even contact, she could be pregnant. You don't have to ejaculate to have sperm present.
You sound like you are too young to be having sex anyway, as you obviously don't know the basics. Yes she could be pregnant and no matter how nice you want to make it sound, ending a pregnancy in ANY WAY IS ABORTION! A 'morning after' pill (which it's too late for anyway, it's called the 'Morning after' for a reason!) Abortion kills the baby period. What do you think, a pill just makes it go away?
2007-09-03 05:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by dibzz d 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, the idea that youth is wasted on the young....(smile) I hope I can help you. You have a lot of questions and you need a lot of answers. First of all - without saying - you know having sex without protection is very, very unwise. Second, it is obvious that your girlfriend's body has not come into its own because her mentral cycle is not even regulated yet! She has no business (and you, either) having sex. Both of you should be attending some classes on sexual behavior and gaining more knowledge about your bodies. You are very, very misled if you think that not ejaculating into the vagina will not cause pregnancy. Prior to ejaculation, men produce a clear liquid that resides on top of the penis and that is FULL OF SPERM! Even a little bit, if any where close to the vaginal area, if the sperm is active and there is enough lubrication - can swim toward the wanted area of awaiting eggs. If she is ovulating - believe me - pregnancy can abound. Now, loosing your virginity has nothing to do with your cycle however, the moment that a female becomes sexually active, there are going to be some significant changes in her body (hips and behind will spread, breasts can become fuller). If you find that you and your friend do conceive a child - there are 'pills' that are available after sex to prevent pregnancy, but there is a lot of controversy surrounding the dispensing of that product - depending upon where you live.
Finally, I, personally, do not believe in abortion and I also believe that if you want to continue a sexual relationship with your girlfriend, it is important that the two of you become educated about your responsibilities. Be pro-active instead of re-active. If you don't want children now, then protect yourself. She needs birth control, and you need a condom. You both need to be protected not only against having an unwanted child, but also, unwanted disease! OR - you could stop having sex now and allow yourselves some mature time to really understand what sex, love and relationships including marriage is all about.
I am a teacher and I have students who come to me all the time wanting information, etc. but I first direct them to their parents. This means that parents are definitely NOT talking REAL TALK to their teens about issues of importance. I am in the process of producing a 'newsletter' for teens just so they can ask all the questions they want without feeling 'stupid'. I would rather someone ask and get a real true answer than to walk around ignorant about issues that are extremely important. I am not pushing my ideas into anyone's head, but I do believe it is important that you know your body and hers and that you are both comfortable and maintain wisdom about your decisions. These decisions are going to affect and effect you and many others in your life. I wish you well.
2007-09-03 12:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you sound very immature and not well educated about sex at all and very selfish these posts really wind me up you talk about an abortion like having a tooth taken out have you thought about the mental implications this will have on your girlfriend but anyway your both stupid for not using protection in the first place there are so many people that cant have children or who try for years to conceive and are never successful and you are quiet happy to go a head and get rid of it if she is pregnant and it is quiet possible she is you need to really grow up and if you cant deal with the consequences of your actions then you should have kept it in your pants !!!!!!
2007-09-03 06:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
having sex for the first time shouldnt delay ur period. I dont know any methods of reversing pregnancy, except abortion which is pure murder. I dont know about the morning after pill. but kids are such a joy. I couldnt live without my 3 month old daughter and dont know how i made it before. My period is irregular too, and i went a month without one once, thought i was pregnant, took a test, turns out , my obgyn said since i was worried about it, it delayed my period. So if she does take a preg test and finds it to be neg, she'll prob start her period the next day.
2007-09-03 05:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by lilmomma86 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all the risk of becoming pregnant when the woman is ovulating is of 26% to 33% that´s why some couples take too long on having a baby.
In other thing, you cannot have a pill that won´t make her have a miscarriage. In my country you can have an abortion within 3 months of pregnancy. But it is stilla miscarriage.
Some women have abortions with misoprostol, the name of the pill is cytotek it is an abortive it opens the cervix and you have an abortion, I don´t know if you need prescription for them as they are pills used for stomach ulcers.
Pls check the link,
Good luck! ;D
2007-09-03 06:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If she is stressed out either about loosing her virginity or other things in her life that can delay her period or put it out of whack. There are many reasons why a girl can miss or have a late period but the most common one is stress. I know you're not going to like this piece but even if you didnt ejaculate in her you could still get her pregnant with pre-ejaculation at the tip of your penis which holds more sperm than your normal ejaculation.
2007-09-03 05:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by marm212 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to actually "sperm" inside her to get her pregnant. Pre-*** contains sperm and it only takes one to make a baby. Condoms are cheaper than pregnancy tests and MUCH cheaper than a baby. Go to the Health Dept or Planned Parenthood and they will provide you with condoms. If a person can not properly take a test or have the decency and respect for themselves to care about their health or consequences, they should NOT be having sex. Be a man and get some condoms! A girl CAN get pregnant ON her period. Sounds like she has some issues if she is getting positive then negative results. She needs to go to the doctor!
2016-05-20 02:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question. To you I know it is but to the educated world it is not. Ever heard of pre ejaculation? It has the same effect as your other boys and will get her in a motherly way. Also if you did get her in a family way I cant beleive you would want a pill to derstroy your child. As the other person said "you made your bed now lie in it. Grow up and act like a man.
Life without my kids would be pure hell. Look at a kid and ask yourself If it was yours would you kill him/her?
2007-09-03 05:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by shiverz 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
stress can delay periods n u take the morning after pill within so many hrs of havin unprotected sex or she cud b !!! only a test can comfirm that,if she isnt b more responsible nxt time
2007-09-03 05:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
ANYTIME you have sex, whether the man ejaculates inside the woman or not, she can get pregnant!
2007-09-03 07:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by PinkMonkeyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋