do you hold a grudge?

Question

or forgive and forget???

Answer 1

I can forgive, but not forget.

Answer 2

To forgive and forget is better, but actually I hold a grudge for years.

Answer 3

Well I usually take at least a couple of days to forgive and forget but I never hold a grudge.

Answer 4

Generally I forgive and forget, but it depends on what has happend in the past. I will hold a grudge if someone crosses me more than once.

Answer 5

When it gets too serious, I tend to hold a grudge. Before I forgive and forget, I expect an apology.

Answer 6

ALways forgive and forget. By holding a grudge your holding onto that negative energy

Answer 7

Initially I hold a grudge...sometimes I will forgive. That all depends on the person and what the situation was about.

If it's something I don't want to forgive them for, I simply drop them out of my life....

Some people like that, just aren't worth my time or effort.

Answer 8

I forgive, but if I forget it might happen to me again. I don't hold grudges, though.

Answer 9

It depends on the veracity of a grudge. Generally, I tend to forgive and forget, but not everything and everyone !

Answer 10

I tend to forgive and forget,life's too short to hold grudges.

Answer 11

i atleast pretend to forgive, but everyone knows deep down you can never completly forget. its human nature to hold grudges, its the way we are. i suppose thats what i think. and ive never had a serious rreason to hold a grudge. its just the little things that tick you off, and inside your head you marking them down, remerbeing them for next time. you never forgive you just learn to ignore.