I am intersexed. I was born with a female internal reproductive system. I have a uterus, cervix, etc. But I have a male external reproductive system, meaning I have a penis. I have been going out with a guy for two months now and I don't know how to tell him.
2007-09-03 02:00:52 · 7 answers · asked by omowazu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I identify as a male. But I think he will be more freaked out because I'm half female. I won't be getting Sex Reassignment, so don't suggest it please.
2007-09-03 03:09:07 · update #1
Tell him now
2007-09-03 02:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by 光冬天 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now before he gets in any deeper. This would be pretty hard for someone to take I'd imagine especially depending on whether or not you live as a male or female. I'd think if this guy thinks you are a female he is going to take it a lot worse than if he thinks you are male just because of your external parts.
You never know though he may be completely understanding of it and you may have found "the one".
2007-09-03 09:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by jenny s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you decided what gender you are? If you are dating a man, I am assuming you live as a woman. Have you decided on whether or not to get a surgery to be just one or the other? I would definitely tell him now. If you plan on having the surgery to make you completely female or male, tell him that too. Then let him decide. If he really cares about you then he will understand. If he doesn't understand and he takes off. Then is he really someone you want in your life anyway?
2007-09-03 09:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better come up with somthing. The longer you wait the worse its going to get. Its gonna be hard to take but just give him some time after you tell him.
2007-09-03 09:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't telling him because you will heart him but don't do it again if you love him
you don't know what he will do maybe he leave you
and the most important thing is do you ingoing whit him
if so
why did you git out with some one else?
you have to answer this question to know what to do
2007-09-03 09:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by alramlh_e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird...but think of it this way...would you wanna know if you were him? Put yourself in that spot. If I was him...and you didn't tell me....I'd hurt you. Not being mean just the truth. TELL HIM NOW!!
2007-09-03 09:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him after all he will discover all your secrets later on
2007-09-03 09:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by lore lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋