I was just wondering...[do not ask for my age please] cuz I am REALLY tomboyish, and I've been hearing/reading stuff that said older females being a tomboy or having a masculine image are often 'repressed or punished'...but I don't want to develop into a girly girl or something either...
2007-09-02 21:33:37 · 12 answers · asked by Jo 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You have to be comfortable in your own skin to be happy, so focus on that, and don't worry about others opinions. That's their problem, their ignorance.
2007-09-02 21:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to be Tomboyish....or whatever that means....and as far as being punished or repressed, I don't know what that might mean....be yourself. That's all you need to be, love.
Let You be your Image.
Good Luck and Goddess Bless.
2007-09-03 06:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by earthcaress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hardly say you're repressed; women acting like men is almost fully accepted but men putting on skirts still isn't, which I find hypocritical. The only thing I can say is that you definitely are gonna have a harder time finding men, but other than that I doubt anything bad will happen to you.
2007-09-03 04:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself - it's one of the golden freedoms that we have in this world. Remember, our behavior is not who we are, just a facet of ourselves that's connected. So, as you infer, behavior can be changed.
That said, it would be sad to repress yourself, and doesn't sound too healthy either. Keep in mind what your goals are for yourself, and only change course if you're content that this will bring you greater peace of mind. You say that you 'don't want to develop into a girl girl', so I assume that this is integral to who you are, and thus it's likely not to be as natural for you - enhance your repertoire of behaviors, only if you're really comfortable, and sure of the consequences, and that they're right for you.
And I wouldn't care too much about the stuff you're hearing about tomboys being 'repressed or punished'. If it feels right for you, and you're not aware of any hidden torment, go for it.
2007-09-03 04:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really Ruchjat..and did God tell u that himself personally?
Oh plz ....dont listen to him
Just be true to yourself.
Im a bit of a tom boyish chick myself...and really I have tried to change lately but its just not working, I feel comfortable in the way I am, I feel comofortable in the way I walk and I cant change it any other way.
Take care kiddo
2007-09-03 05:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ring fingers are longer than your index fingers you were born with a male-type brain and that's not really going to change.
Such girls have the capability to respond readily to male hormones and so tend to be more masculine on average.
2007-09-03 04:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol just be you girl! a chick with attitude, now thats a force to be reckoned with! show the world the you that you are baby and someone will love and admire you for having the guts to stand out amongst the crowd! age dont matter either! you are you and if anyone has a problem with that, well then its just their fault they weren't raised properly to embrace and accept people outside of annoying stereotypes! be yourself and be loved for it girl!
2007-09-03 05:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Cody D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not really wrong to be tomboyish when you are getting older as long as you do not become a lesbian.Lesbia
nism and homosexuality are prohibited by God.
2007-09-03 05:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can u be repressed with being a tomboy, you are who you are, just stay who you are, it's the easiest and best option.
2007-09-03 04:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by PrEgNaNtChEaRlEEdeRR! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what you are.
Do your thing.
It is who you are.
Where do you hear about repressed or punished?
2007-09-03 04:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse Not! you are what you are, it would be really wrong if you be or act like somebody you are not. be yourself! be proud! (same thing if in case you decide to be girly in the future) Take Care!
2007-09-03 04:41:05 · answer #11 · answered by jace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋