Please explain...
2007-09-02 20:27:11 · 5 answers · asked by sirkusrock 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
first you change to please others, then later, with growing confidence, others change to please you.
but the furthest you can grow is towards wisdom:
"be the change you want to see in the world" (Gandhi)
change yourself to please yourself, and do not expect anything from others.
2007-09-02 20:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by baerchen80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither.
I want people to like me for who I am, not who I think they would like.
And my friends and I... our personalities go well together!
Changing is silly. :) If people aren't pleased with the real me, that's too bad and it's their loss. :P
2007-09-02 20:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by Loraine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't change to please others. What you see is what you get. I don't expect others to change for me either !!!
2007-09-02 20:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by Diana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, im a kiss *** and some girls here try changing to get to my ummmm.... manhood? lol
2007-09-02 20:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by thirsty_for_blood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither and that's why we go our separate ways.
2007-09-02 21:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Impact 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋