Please!!! Be honest, How many of you out there are honestly in a happy relationship/marriage that lasted longer that two years (past the honeymoon stage of the relationship) , you still get butterfly's when you think of him/her, and you love them more now that you did the first day you met, etc...
I'm in a relationship I'm happy 50% of the time and miserable the other half. Is this a normal relationship?
2007-09-02 20:07:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
honestly?
i dont think it exists. that is why i am happily single lol
for moments it exists. but true happiness is where I am now in my life
2007-09-02 20:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think my spouse already knows, has known for some time now. After twelve years of marriage she has several affairs with other men.
I loved her more then life, she was my high school sweetheart. I have to admit, it changed my feeling for her tremendously, we had four beautiful kids, what to do?
I sucked in my gut and went forward, forgave but, how do you forget? Our physical relationship is non-existent. I am now handicapped and cannot perform, she claims "it doesn't matter" but, that little spark at the end of my question "what if she does it again due to this?"
This all took place over a ten years period, she did it more then a few times but, I was always there for her.
Now, I'm old, we've been together for fifty years, there's nothing more then waiting for the end, a happy life ended years ago. I know, I should have left and tried but, love was to great.
I know she worries that maybe some day I will meet someone and just leave.
No one but us knows what happen, one daughter that we thought may be from one affair, but wasn't thought something is wrong but, has kept quiet.
What a life?
2007-09-02 22:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure, folks do it all the time. I mean nobody is ideal and each person will mainly perpetually see anything else they would really like extra in any person else, however are sure via occasions where they do not want to damage the individual they are courting, or the opposite individual is taken. Of direction there's invariably dishonest, but when both have guilty consciences then that is out. That you may have a glad relationship established on intercourse, but it will now not be the first-rate you might, like if it have been established on love over intercourse, with best sex, too.
2016-08-04 14:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy. 6 years of marriage. Ups and downs and its better than ever. I think you will always have times when you aren't so happy. But I honestly think a marriage is what you make it. Not just one of you but both of you. You both should be 100% committed to the relationship and be honest about what you want outta it. Plus it takes a couple years to get past the BS.
2007-09-02 20:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by jbahhh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes....we've been together for 8 years....we r very happy....loving...I'd say a very good relationship...we do love each other more now than the first year we were together....we have had our ups & downs like any other couple....but in the end we r together because we want to be..u should not be happy only 50% of the time....and miserable the other half....that is NOT normal......either work out the problems if u love him....or move on...
2007-09-02 20:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I'm in a happy, committed relationship, going on 7 1/2 years.
50% happy is not good, 50% miserable is even worst.
2007-09-02 20:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I still get the butterflies when I look at my husband! We have been together for 3 and 1/2 years. I think the honeymoon stage goes away for everyone. There is no prince charming out there. All guys are just guys - they fart and watch sports. But the love is deeper when it is true.
2007-09-02 20:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by ~SheSul~ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hi, i have been in a relationship for 3 yrs. There are of course ups and downs in my relationship but i do admit that i have found my special someone and i love him more than i first met him. i still get butterflies most of the time when we are together.
2007-09-02 20:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for over 22 years and I absolutely adore my husband. He is the strong hero type and yet he loves roses and brings me fresh ones every day. We take long walks together and sometimes we stay up half the night just talking. He is my best and dearest friend and I feel absolutely confident that he feels the same way.
I wish everyone could know the kind of love and commitment that I know, but maybe it will encourage you to know that these kinds of relationships still exist outside of fairytales.
2007-09-02 20:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by Aunt Bee 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I'm not married yet, too young for that... But I've been with my secret lover for more than 2 years, and I'm proud and happy about it... ^_^
He loves me so much to be able to give me everything, while I can't bear to accept his great love for me...
Don't worry dear, this is normal... No relationship is perfect anyway...^_^
Just work on it and see that you will slowly be happy 100% and miserable 0%.
2007-09-02 20:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by FloralLover 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The hubby and I were married 11 years in August. We have the most honest, loving relationship you can imagine. We seldom disagree and have about 1 argument a year. True! He treats me like the queen of the world and he's my king. That's what happens when you marry your soul mate!
2007-09-02 20:11:55 · answer #11 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋