Normally i am the super quiet guy that cant talk to people but after a few drinks i can be the friendliest person on earth, talk to anyone, dance all night at weddings.. but then when i sober up im back to the reserved person that has no fun... how can i be a little more like the drunk me without the liquor.. i cant seem to fix this...
2007-09-02 18:26:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
What you do is to take a chance. Dare to be outgoing and talkative in one situation. When you receive positive feedback, you will become more confident. And then you will take another chance and another chance. It will become very easy before you know it. Give it a try.
2007-09-02 19:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Marguerite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you depend on the alcohol to lower your inhibitions that you normally have. While all things in moderation would normally be considered okay, in this case, you are using the drinks as a crutch, and therefore not being your true self. You need to understand what reasons you have for being shy and reluctant to socialize, and then work through those issues. Basically, have confidence in yourself that people will like you as much as they do after a few drinks, when you are not drinking. You could end up becoming dependent on the alcohol, and end up abusing it. Alcohol is fine in moderation, but the body builds up a tolerance, and the more you rely on it to move your inhibitions to the side, the close you come to becoming dependent and abusing it. Be careful, and have the courage to be your self without relying on anything other than your natural charms to overcome your shyness. Good luck to you.
2007-09-02 18:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation as you are. Lack of confidence is always my problem. Once I drink I no longer care what others think, so I open up and become very outgoing. It's much easier said than done, but it comes down to controlling a social situation instead of a situation controlling you.
2007-09-02 18:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try roypinol, ribotril, valium or any pill like that with some alcohol... you will be impressed on how cool and outgoing you ll become... works best at nightclubs.
Dont drive!!!
2007-09-02 18:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to build your confidence, and learn to love yourself and find the good thing in you rather than your flaws, try reading motivating quotes everyday
2007-09-02 18:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋