Why am i so unwanted???

Question

All i want to do is care. Why am i not loved like i want to be loved????

Answer 1

no ones unwanted in this world...though there might not be many BUT there would always be atleast one person who may like/love/admire you..its jus that...its been unrevealed...cheer up buddy n stay happy
things wud work wonders for u....

I THINK YOUR A NICE HUMAN & IM SURE UR A BEAUTIFUL PERSON

Answer 2

I cannot answer that question because Ive been asking that same one for almost 30 years now. I know you will be loved, because even without seeing you, I can see your beauty in your words and your pain cuts deep in my heart. You are so beautiful and you will be loved the way you need, I just know. People like me though, that will never happen to, cause of the way I look. I pray for death every night since I wasa 14 because no one, not even my family can love me the way I nee. I wish things were different and that I knew you, because I could love you more than you have ever seen or heard of. Please dont give up baby, I dont know how much more I can take these frigid hearts, but as long as I am alive I will help you the best that I can. Bye sweet heart and I wish you all the happiness in the world.

Answer 3

Dear Sweetgigirl don't feel like the lone stranger. I would dare to say that everyone I know has felt unwanted and unappreciated at some time or another. I think it's just a coincidence of living or life. It'll pass, maybe it's just a chance to pause and reflect ,to make some decisions about where you're headed and what you really want out of life and love. A bove all don't dwell in that place too long. Get out and explore your options. lots of luck. T4

Answer 4

I think you expecting something from wrong set of people for misguided reasons.

Who does not love you? You immediate family?

What have you done for you to be in demand?

Hell with what others think. Have a good shower. Gen into your best clothes. Hit the street. Whistle a good tune.

Do your job properly. Work hard. Read as much as you can. Help needy and elders. Give some to Charity. Wear a smile always.

Do not expect anything in return. The investment will be returned with interest in due course.

All the best.

Answer 5

Why do you put other's love for you on higher pedestal than the love you have for yourself? If you get busy learning to love yourself as you are, then you won't be worried whether or not others do. Want, care for, and love yourself. When you do this, I guarantee you will have higher self-esteem, higher joy, and better satisfaction out of life. People will naturally start to sense this high-quality love out of you and will be attracted to it like moths to light.

Become like two people in one: the lover and the loved. Start being the one that brings joy, comfort, and purpose to your life. I started doing this years ago. Now people call me 'carefree' and 'spontaneous' and 'attractive'. I don't worry what people think, I just care about enjoying myself in the moment. People are so attracted to that and I get more attention than I can handle. (Now I seek out and crave alone-time.)

But, if you are a little bundle of issues where other people see that you can't take care of your own happiness, then they want no part of it. (Most people can't take care of THEIR OWN happiness, so what makes you think they can love you any better than you can love yourself?)

Hope that helps, hon...

Answer 6

I would like to say you will find your one and only some day; who knows? Don't try so hard?
But, better to be unwanted than to be wanted by the law. So, be good, think good, and you will (eventually) be rewarded with good.

Answer 7

welcome to my world. i keep thinking that "Hatred Falls Forevermore, on a World of Endless Illusions" but i cant let myself start thinking like that otherwise (like tonight) i get sad, so DO NOT think like that!! there are those that care. they just havnt said anything about it yet.