Is suicide an option?

Question

I'm married & sick of talking to a brick wall. We have no children. I have to tell my spouse a million times to do things. I stay late at work just so that I don't have to deal with my spouse when I get home. We fight every f* day and it makes me depressed, frustrated, tired and just plain "tired of living". I have tried talking to other people. We have tried talking to other people. We can't stand each other and my spouse does not want to give me a divorce. I am stuck with my spouse and the misery she puts me thru. Do you still think that I should not take my life? I have tried a few times... unsuccessfully, obviously. Last week was the most recent time... we had another blow up today. She makes my life a misery. It affects my work, my social relations, my friends hardly call me anymore. I'm tired of living...

Answer 1

An option as opposed to being strong, getting through your tough times, overcoming your problems and moving on throughout life? That is a cowardly and selfish option to give yourself. Everyone will tell you that it is not an option, and that is you didn't want to be talked out of it, you wouldn't ask. If you have enough sense to ask about it, you don't really want to carry it through. There is no problem that can not be solved. Sometimes things do not work out the way we want for them to, sometimes we make mistakes and must endure the consequences of those decisions. Sometimes bad things happen for no reason. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. That is the way life is. I don't know what is bothering you, but I can guarantee, that if you could be a fly on the wall of any place where you could hear the problems other people have, yours may not seem so bad. Before you do anything harmful to yourself or anyone else, stop and count your blessings, all the advantages you have over others. There are a million examples of people who would love to trade places with you and have your life rather than their own.

Answer 2

Suicide is always an option, it's just not always the best option. I would suggest talking with someone who could help you put your problems in perspective. If you're thinking about suicide because your social life is on the rocks then it's best to just get counseling and wait until things improve. But if you're in a lot of pain and there is no realistic expectation that your life will ever get better (realistic not from your perspective, but an objective third party) then I don't see why suicide shouldn't be considered.

Edit: In your case, I would say you should definitely try other options first. Even if you wife doesn't want to give you a divorce, there is no way she can make you stay in your marriage. You might have to pay alimony, but you'll at least be able to move on with your life. You could also just move out of the house without getting a divorce and see how things go. If your home life is what's causing your problems, you just need to get away from it.

Answer 3

NO, it should never be an option, suicide is just an easy way out from dealing with the problems your having......

If you have problems, or issues, tell someone, there is ALWAYS a better route...

Think before you do anyhting, of how many people will miss you, or how you wont be able to have children, and watch them grow up... But most of all....

I think when people go suicide they are taking the easy way out, and they are just to weak to deal with the proplbems in there life... and if your a teenager, most teenagers believe that there is no end to there cruel life of living with your parents, and following rules, but a few more years, and youll be out doing whatever you want...

So be strong about it, and try to work it out.

Answer 4

suicide is never a good option, it's for cowards that will not brave the worst of the worst. i have had times when i felt suicidal but i knew it was never a option
think of the people that will mourn your death, what grief you will cause, just because you feel like living's useless, when you want to give up...you will never experience the fullness of life



today...



no, don't do suicide, because the people around you are *******, run away, to another place and forget the past...
get an alibi, move to a different state or whatever and be free!!!don't give a damn about the past or your wife, divorce and marry someone else, geta kid and chill out care free for the rest of your life

Answer 5

Sweetie, I can understand how you feel because one of my family members had suicidal thoughts. Sweetie, please do not commit suicide. There are so many thing to live for. I would be super sad if you decided to take your own life. The world would cry without you around and many people would miss you like your friends and family . Please, I would be so sad to see you hurt yourself! If you do not have anyone to turn to, I want you to call these hot lines and look at these websites that can get you help and support. Here they are:

1) 800-SUICIDE:800-784-2433
2) 1-800-SUICIDE
3)1-800-273-TALK/1-800-273-825...
4) 1-800-999-999 (Suicide & Crisis Center Hotlines)
*http://www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines....
*http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/...........
*http://www.awarefoundation.org

*http://www.depression.com/index.html.......
*http://www.depressionisreal.org/...........
*http://www.webmd.com/depression/...........

If these resources above do not help you, please call 911 or seek another counselor and a psychiatrist. They can help you with your recovery and ease the emotional and physical pain. Just remember to keep everybody's answers in mind and know that there is hope out there. If you need anything, please go to Yahoo Answers and type in another question because I bet everybody would love to help you! I hope you get better real soon! I will make sure to pray for you every night!

Answer 6

No! Suicide is never an option.No matter what you're going through, someone else out there feels the same way too. Go to your local clinic or talk to a close family member and get help honey. Life can be a real s**t hole sometimes but you've got to believe that you CAN live above all that and just push through.Everyone goes through tough times. You will be OK. Give yourself a chance. :)

I will be praying for you. :)

Answer 7

An option? For what? It is the opposite of taking charge of your life, seeking help and trying to address the demons in your life that cause you to think these thoughts. Go to a mental health clinic, please. If you can't do that go to clergy or someone that you trust , take their advice and let them guide you to help. Don't try to deal alone. There are other options. I have no idea what you are going through and I have never thought such thoughts, thank God but I have been depressed. So, I know it is hard to pull yourself up...get help please and NO NO NO it is not ever an option! You are precious and beautiful and were created by God to be here on this earth for a purpose. It's up to each of us to find that purpose. Go to Daily Strength.com for some support online and meet others who can talk to you about things you are going through. I am in the chronic pain group under missmaryooch. Virginia. You need to talk. You can e-mail me if you want to. I am praying for you and asking for strength in your spirit and for protection from the thoughts that are making you think this way. I am sending positive thoughts your way. You are special and you are not going to cause yourself harm, I command this in the name of Jesus! Bless you. Protection around you! Amen.
Miss Mary

Answer 8

Sure, Why not? At least theres some one to lessen the Population =D

HONESTLY: Consider your options. This is 9/10 times the worst choice.

Answer 9

No, just take control of your life and make a plan. If you dont have any plans in life, then at least you know where to start!!

Hope it works out for ya! This world is a harsh hctiB sometimes, but it can also cradle you and sweeten you with milk and honey.

--UPDATE-- THE OLD MATERIAL IS ABOVE--THE NEW MATERIAL IS BELOW THIS MAGIC PIXEL

I didn't actually read anything but the headline when I first put up my answer.

I gotta say, and honestly admit. I gave my first answer when I was sober.

I gave the second answer when I was "beyond sober" and into a god-like-state of titan insight and rocketpower clearity, proven by these 3 links...

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuuNcZih_BE6giiqu4mgEAvsy6IX?qid=20070626183013AAdR4ZU

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtCnyggl6UVc.hX0AfJbWRzty6IX?qid=20070902195932AAQSzA6&show=7#profile-info-qQ5fdhbyaa

Also, if you are considering sucide--there are more than one type...

Do what I did. Commit "everything suicide" which basically means you live life as if you are a ghost who already committed suicide and is allowed to roam the earth as a human, for as long as you chose, and you don't have to follow any rules anymore. You are 100% FREE!!! Basically, you are "alive" only because as a ghost, you chose to be here.

Everything in the past is gone, pretend you are already dead. Live life HOWEVER YOU CHOSE and know that since you different than everyone now... all their rules dont apply to you.

If you dont want to pay your cable bill--mail them a "f/u".

If you hate your genital companion--humiliate her one last time and float away.

Honestly, I "committed suicide" 6 years ago, and have been free ever since.

My old life is completely gone--I got rid of everything and everyone from my past and I live life, like a mongoose.

You have no responsibilities. Nothing can affect you and you are infinitely powerful.

Honestly, you are here on yahoo answers and you know that if you post a suicide topic you'll get 99 "feel good answers" but you're praying for a miracle from Darwin (or buddha if you are a religous scatman).

Wake up, commit "virtual suicide" right now and rid EVERYTHING of your past life.

Come up with a new "sticker" to go over your freed soul.

This virtual suicide I propose to you, is not just a coqtease. It's the real deal. This is not based in philosophy or hyper-modern medicine. Its just two guys--just alike--helping each other out of an identical situation. I know you would help someone like yourself if you had the answers...

CORRECT!!!

Well so would I.

My wife has cheated on me with two guys, and guess what??? Now I only live with her to impregnate her over + over + over again. Child support??? yeah right--try getting it from a ghost.

We are currently in the 2nd embryonic development, our first child is a darling gal, whom we shall keep, but this next one--I'm trying to make a philosophical statement.

Trust me dude--I have discovered a completely new/random/"off the beaten path" way for your neurons (brain cells) to find better use.

Wouldn't you give all for nothing if you have nothing to lose??? Who cares, commit virtual suicide, start your life over, and get rid of everything you hated about your past life.

Am I making sense???

Yes?!?! then TOTAL BONUS WE'RE ON THE SAME MEDICATION.

Its like we're psychobuleimic.

If you take nothing else from this reborn soul, I urge you to print my answer, and highlight at least two fragments of coherence which you agree with and swear on your rebirth that you will let touch your new heart.

Also, if this is inspiring, read my other answers. Just do a google-search (or yahoo search ) for a single word "sentriclecub".

You will realize that my soul has been tortured. I was molested/beaten/prostituted out for drugs (yeah my parents did drugs not only while I was of penetrable age, but also while I was in utero--thus explaining my dual psychiatric and neurosis problems.)

But guess what man!!!

I'm FREE and i'm

GLAD TO BE ALIVE!!!!!!!

Answer 10

Never. Feeling that bad to think about suicide like you do, is just a sign you need to ask for help. There are alot people out there that are able to help e.g. Salvation Arm. If you are crisis, please get into contact with a association, that can help you. That is why they are there.