What is up with most middle school girls?

Question

I'm in middle school, and it seems like most girls (and boys, for that matter) are just complete idiots. This girl came up to me and asked, "Do you wear that tie every day?" mockingly. When I gave her a look and said, "No, not every day," she snickered and went back to her friends, and then they laughed and pointed at me. Why are they such idiots? Why would they think that this would hurt my feelings, because it's just so stupid? Frankly, I have one question:

wtf?

1. I didn't say ALL middle school girls were idiots. Okay? Okay.

2. I wear a tie sometimes because I like it. Why do you wear Abercrombie, hmm?

Answer 1

most of the middle school girls are juss dum bit ches dont pay anyattention to them it going to be a waiste of ur time trust me been there done that

Answer 2

I don't know what it is, but I sure can relate to it.

Anyways, I'm just glad I made it through because middle school was hell in 6th and 7th grade. 8th was better in a different school, but of course there still were lots of peoplewho acted like idiots. I think one reason may be that in middle school the ages range from about 11-14. Not exactly the most mature people to begin with. When you put a 14 year old at the top of the school I think he or she thinks that he or she is "all that" and that teasing younger grades and those in the same grade as a funny idea. In high school so far you have seniors and juniors to keep the freshmen in line. I'll admit to being a freshman too. They are usually more mature, though not always, and so the younger grades can learn a bit from them.

I think the girls, as someone else already said, were on a dare and thought that you looked like a good person to pick on. 'Uncool' so to speak. You are supposed to want to be 'cool' and being laughed at by the 'cool' people should make you feel bad and unwanted. I always wondered why I was supposed to want it when they all treat each other that way. I just ignore them and think that I should not go down to their level. Boys are much the same way, but at my school it was more about physical violence. Most people grow out of it; some are just stupid.

I got teased a little too by some girl who was an absolute witch (I'm sorry but I can't say it any other way) who thought I would care that she always said that she would kiss me in a mocking way. Why the hell would I want to kiss you, you're an idiot!?! Some things just don't have straight answers.

Answer 3

I know, I'm going into high school now. Truthfully all that make-up and tight little clothes from Ambercrombie or Holister and stuff looks ridiculous. Good for you for not doing the same as them. I like the look of ties. Just be proud of yourself for not conforming to fit in with those idiots. Not all middle schoolers are idiots though, thankfully. Haha, I know what you mean, I dressed differently too and when people would make fun of me I'd seriously laugh because it was funny that THEY were insulting me. They wear pants so baggy they go half way down their butts, or skirts so small they can barely sit. At least you have your own unique look.

Answer 4

psh, people just like to be jerks. especially the ones with ;) lesser intelligence. I am pretty sure the more intelligent people are more accepting to diversity! Atleast that's what I've experienced

I do recall once in 7th grade on the bus trying to avoid the highschoolers (highschool and jr high ride the same bus here), and just quietly sitting about 3rd seat from the front, making sure my bus driver doesn't miss my house because I fly under the radar ;), and this 11th grader comes up to me before she gets off and looks at my bookbag and says "ew do you know that's a BOY bookbag????" and got off the bus.. I was wasn't embarassed or anything, I felt bad she thinks that matters it's a boys bookbag and that she probably had no idea of any other real sad things in the world. The book bag is great, I still use it now and I am going into 11th grade, it's like a green khaki canvas bag and it's always been loyal.

Some people just like to get a rise out of others. Be the better person and just ignore them or answer as nicely as possible and show them that, despite their small brain capacity, you will treat them with respect.

Answer 5

I am a middle schooler too. Your right, it makes no sense. None at all. It actually starts younger. In 5th grade we had to do a family history report. My best friend (Vannessa) had another friend-Shelly. Vannessa is OBSESSED with being Irish-and proud. Shelly is a follower, not a leader, and she found out that she was Italian and went with it.

So we are presenting Fam. history reports, and whenever someone say 'Ireland' or 'Irish', you just look at Vanns. That simple. So, every 5 presentations, when someone said Italy or Italian, someone *just one person* looked at Shelly. So after Mark's presentation, Shelly raises her hand and says "Can people not look at me when someone says Italian or Italy, because its not my fault that I'm Italian.". And then Lance, the 'say it like it is' kinda guy of the class goes "Ya know Shelly, you kind of bring it on yourself!". Then that all kind of gets sweeped under the rug and we are back to presentations. The next thing we know, we hear sobs coming from--oh. Who else but SHELLY? Little drama queen was crying because of Lances comment. Ha. So, being her friends, we all (every girl in the class) took her outside to calm her down. We bring a box of tissues (FULL) and by the time we come back in they are gone. Ha. Ha. Ha. So she walks back in, and, being the crazy person of the class, I raise my hand and say "Can people not look at me when someone says tupperware? Because ya know, my grandma was collecting it wayy before I was born and it's not my fault!" Im so silly.

And it starts even before that! In 1st grade, Shelly farted and everyone started cracking up. I mean, come on! We were 6 for the love of Jesus Mary and Joseph. So Shelly just starts pourin BUCKETS and goes "Stop it! I have farting problems!" Hahahahahahaa. Best day of my life! Oh yeah baby, goin strong.

Answer 6

People,regardless of gender or age , who attempt to put others down do so because they are probab;ly very insecure in themself.It makes them feel superior to others when they cop an attitude.Dare to be different, it means you have true self confidence.It is not really cool to just blindly follow fads and fashion just because someone says it is the "hot news style" Congratulations on being you and strong enough to shun peer pressure. You are a winner.Take care.

Answer 7

Because middle school girls care so much about their look and trying to fit in, that they don't care what they do as long as they're impressing their friends. I see so many middle school-aged girls complaining on wearing uniforms to school, and so concerned about "dressing themselves" and "freedom of expression" but honestly, they all dress the same! If you really notice, I see the same girl over and over. Anything with a designer brand, girls need and must flaunt. There's no individuality in girls these days. I can't tell you how many girls I see in a school day wearing a Hollister polo with a mini skirt.

I can't tell you how many times I want to gag myself when I see a clique of girls standing in a circle with their oversized sunglasses, cell phones glued to their ears, and obnoxious gum chewing. Ew.

INDIVIDUALITY! CLASS! AND FOR GOD SAKE BE YOUR OWN PERSON YOU MIDDLE SCHOOL CLONES!

Answer 8

You sound wise WAY beyond your years. Someday you will be their boss - so just laugh right on back at them and continue to be who you are - tie and all!

By the way - they do that sort of out of jealousy. People like that are SO stuck in the rut of doing what is expected of them - wearing what their friends wear even if they dont like it, acting how their friends act, etc.. they just attack anyone who is able to rise above it and be themselves. You being comfortable with who you are and doing your own thing threatens the very system they live under. Just ignore them - they suck.

Answer 9

When one only has a partial brain, one cannot be expected to act in a fashion deemed fully "human". Children are not adults, and this includes children who are in middle school. They are still just children, so expect them to be childish. The difference is that they are sufficiently developed to express their childishness more directly and efficiently than they previously had, but they lack any and all sense of decorum--they just don't have the neurological development for it at that stage of life.

However, most of these larval humans will develop into fully-fledge human minds. Just don't expect fully human/humane behavior from them just yet--they're not capable of it.

Answer 10

Ties are fun. I wore a scarf every day in sixth grade. :)

They're just morons, helped along by the media. Lucky you-most girls like that at my school take it to the next level. (Yeah, they're pathetic.) They kick me in the lunch line over and over again and since I'd like to keep my ribs intact and my ear piercing not ripped, there's nothing I can do about it (those are the first two things girls go for when they get in fights). They're pathetic people who might be cool now, but they'll grow up and still be pathetic and you'll get to laugh at them.

Oh, and they wear Abercrombie and Hollister and all that junk because they want to be walking billboard signs when they grow up. :)

Answer 11

omg i know exactly what you mean. and it never seems to end, either. you give them a look or a retort and they just walk back giggling. i ask people in response, 'why do you wear that "fill in the blank"? but it doesn't totally work. i think they're a lot of times insecure and will often attack people for their own ego boost, or to help them feel more confident of their social standing. it's great that it doesn't hurt you.