Ok people, we've made it thru, work, children, the "change" and dealing with retirement issues. Now what's the best way to approach our passions when, the "flag" rests at half mast and there is still a yearnning to stoke the fires?
2007-09-02 16:02:28 · 33 answers · asked by . 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Senior Citizens
I'm not as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was........even tho it takes all night to do what I used to do all night............#########
2007-09-02 16:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stay as young as you feel, if you need a little help ask the Doctor, The flag may be at half mast, but there are a lot of ways to stoke that fire, so just don't give up. Play those golden oldies, dance, play those silly games, You might be surprised.
2007-09-04 16:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now at what age is all this happening?. I am mid 70's and have no half mast issues. . Perhaps I am fortunate in that respect but I live on my own now so am not able to take advantage of things.. Find most ladies of similar age are not that keen on replacing their Bingo with nookie, Or am I wrong.
2007-09-04 00:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are a few out there who don't get your point but i think i know what you mean - variety being the spice of life you need to think outside the box- first you need to be good mates who still make each other laugh everyday - not every race has to be run to the end and the real fun is in the taking part - don;t take it too seriously - you know sooner or later it would slow down but you can give it new life if you're prepared to get a little 'crazy' -
dressing up is good - location - spread your wings with this one - hotel rooms - beaches - woods - cars - mountain huts - sofas - floors - stairs - kitchen table------ are you getting my point - think lust not love - the love is already there after all. role play goes well with dressing up - you don't have to over do it it's more like - throwing in a bit of a surprise.
give it a go - trust me it works
2007-09-02 22:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by gillm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can only assume we are talking about ED here. If I am off base, you need to reword your question. There are many 'cures' for the problem. If viagra or cealis doesn't do it for you, Boston clinic or your urologist have a sure fire cure for the problem...so stoke away and have a ball. Senior sex is the best there is. good luck
2007-09-02 18:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are remedies for both MEN and WOMEN when interest lags. Us 'old folks' are so fortunate in those ways that our parents just chalked up to putting up with old age.
I'll not be ashamed to asked for 'aid' if that time comes when the old engine won't kick over right or runs on 4 out of 6 cylinders.
2007-09-03 04:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by AmericanPatriot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a common problem. I suggest a visit to the GP, no need to feel embarrassed, get checked out to make sure there's no physical problem. GP will prescribe or advise as appropriate.
Be wary of self medication, it may do more harm than good.
Have fun, enjoy the closeness, and don't get stressed if nothing happens.
2007-09-03 08:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by Florence-Anna 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you can stoke my fire as much you like but the only thing you will raise is the Dust ( memories are made of this another Max Bygraves hit I think)
2007-09-02 19:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No stoking of any fires tonight. Too tired,and miss those I love. A bit of reading, then off to bed. Maybe tomorrow though,because as Scarlett O' Hara said "tomorrow is another day." PS Sex shmex.I love my cats, and they NEVER give me grief!
2007-09-02 16:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm not of retirement age yet...I am retired. So, I choose to relax. I like to do this relaxing on a foreign beach with a glass of something cool by my side.
What retirement issues? It's no more stressing for me.
2007-09-03 20:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never think about the actual act eny more.my hubbie has been unable to raise the flag or over 5 years,so we do other things for each other.i dont have to draw ya a map do i?you get the picture
2007-09-02 16:53:46 · answer #11 · answered by alcaholicdemon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋