I'm 27, my new g/f is 24, I am VERY sexually inexperienced so I know much less than almost any guy my age, so thanx for any help.
I want to know, what should I say to my g/f when we're making love (or should I say anything al all even)?
I know the natural ooo's and ahh's will come out, but should I say other things. I'm not the talking dirty type and neither is she, so I'm not gonna try that.
Should I like, say I love you a lot, or things like that? Anything else you can thing of?
Thanks.
2007-09-02 15:56:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Honey, take it from me. Don't say a damn word. You will mess up everything. And never say "does this feel good" that's just annoying. If it don't feel good, she'll let ya know... or lie. The more you talk, the more she'll wish it would end. TRUST ME. Good luck!
2007-09-02 16:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ask her what she likes. Ask her if she has any favorite positions. Suggest she play with herself so you can watch. Have her tell you in detail what she likes and doesn't like. Tell her she's the most delicious thing you've ever tasted (ask you make gobble and slurping noises).
Get her talking and moaning and the sensation will overtake her. Noises play a key role in lovemaking. When the sounds are pleasurable, that's good. When she's silent, switch to something else.
2007-09-04 08:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only say the I Love You if you mean it and if so in a whispering sensual way only once in awhile. Just don't overdo anything. Maybe saying how beautiful she is, that's always a good one. Just go with what feels natural, if you aren't gonna try to talk dirty necessarily.
2007-09-02 16:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You know, whatever you decide, whatever advice you accept, will go right out the window when you are finally with her. You will never do what you plan to do because you shouldn't PLAN to do anything anyway. Whatever comes out comes out, whatever stays in stays in.
Don't listen to those who say "Don't" and don't listen to those who say "Do". Don't listen at all.
Do you suppose the lion is thinking "Should I roar when I nail her?" Do you suppose that the bear is wondering "Should I growl when I drop her?" Be the lion, be the bear...don't question your own nature, don't worry and don't fret, all answers are wrong.
Be an animal kid as talking or not is not the point. Don't miss the point. The point is enjoy yourself, make sure that your girl feels comfortable. THAT'S the only POINT.
2007-09-02 16:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Tell her to hurry up and take care of you as there are a number of chores to be done in the house. Then when you finish get her the vacuum and tell her to close the door so the noise does not wake you.
2007-09-03 00:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the natural ooos and ahhhhs should do but also say i love u (once or twice more than that i find creepy)also tell her how much she turns u on and how she feels good and suff like that
good luck
2007-09-02 17:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Bookybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how good she feels - warm, soft, whatever you like about her body; pretty, beautiful - just nice things to let her know you're relating to her as a person, not just a piece of meat.
Also ask her what she likes in bed, what feels good to her, if there's anything she'd like you to do. That's a great turn-on to a woman.
Personally, I wouldn't want to hear "I love you" unless you really mean it. "It's wonderful to be with you" is just as good - unless of course you do love her.
2007-09-02 16:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by BrooklynInMyBones 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to say anything.... go with the flow ull know what to say trust me, just be careful with i love you, if u both love each other than thats fine but sometimes that phrase can make sex awkward if both people dont feel the same, good luck!
2007-09-02 16:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by onelove 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's nice when a guy says "I love you" after orgasm. As far as during sex...the only time I really say anything is if we're having seriously kinky sex and it goes along with the moment.
2007-09-02 16:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Dont forget to talk afterwards too, tel her you love her if you do and sounds like you do. Tell what was good about the sex
2007-09-02 16:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋