i think i get easily attached to ppl??

Question

i mean im not dumb and i am cautious with certain ppl, especially on the web...but im toooo nice, and a lilllll bit on the gullable side, like when some1 says somethin in the bak of my mind im like "thats not true" but then i WANT to believe it almost and even if some part of me knows i shouldnt really trust sumone (cuz i aint stupid), its liike im too nice and i dont wanna hurt nobodys feelings, so i WANNA trust them, knowing i shouldnt. its complicated. i get attached to ppl so easily tho....like in skool, i have a class withthis one girl that i usually dont talk to, but i used to go to skool with her so she was the only 1 i KINDA knew..in that class it seemed like we were becomin good friends, but thn its like, when i see her outsideof that class walkin by, and i say hey, its like she dont know me.its actually like that wit lots of ppl..maybe i get 2 attached, and expect itback? but come on ppl are a bit rude.am i overlytrusting? easily attached? is this bad? or are ppl just rude?

im reall ynice and just wanna plz, cuz im kind of a sucker that way..and ppl know that, and know how to make me feel guilty if i say no or dont accomadate to their needs...like always..so now ppl automatically expect me to do wut they want or give em wut they want?

Answer 1

I know exactly what you're talking about. (Also, just for the record, I tried to answer this question a few minutes ago and the stupid computer DELETED it!!!!!) I was (a still am, but to a much lesser extent) the same exact way. It's good to be nice, but you can come off as a push-over. In some cases that isn't exactly bad, but you need to stand up for yourself. You shouldn't take it personally that the girl did that to you. A lot of people do things like that (although I can't figure out why.) You might want to stay friends with that girl, if you don't know anyone else real well yet. But don't expect too much from her. I'm not exactly sure what my advice is...... This worked better the first time...... (stupid computer...) Attach yourself less I guess, and people will start to give you the respect that you deserve.
I hoped I helped... At least a little.......
~peace~
~W.A.C.K.O.

Answer 2

I'm the same way..I tend to get easily attached to people and this usually results in them being able to take advantage of me. It's ok to be nice, but you shouldn't be a doormat, either. Just try to find a balance in between being too cautious and too trusting and you'll be fine.

Answer 3

I know what you mean, Im the same way.
Its only bad depending on the situation.