How could I figure out where my real parents are....
I have a lot of information on them... I was adopted when I was 5 months and I really wanted to get to see my birth mom when I get older and I'm only 13 but when i get 16 I want to find out where they are.. they still mean a lot to me even though I've never meet them!!!
no harsh answers... please
oh can I do it with out going to the adoption place by phone and stuff in korea??
no harsh answers.... thanks
Katie
2007-09-02 14:30:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Oh I live in the United STates
2007-09-03 02:55:30 · update #1
Your birth parents are in korea? We, my family, just adopted a little boy from south korea... i am only 15 so I am not too sure on how to find them...But I think you should hire someone to help you... You should contact your agency, and go from there.... But I am living in korea....so...I am not too sure.
If you need any help, and you think that I or my family could help you just write me at megan3puppy@hotmail.com.
2007-09-02 14:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Missy!~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may get some harsh answers, this is the Internet, and yes it is wrong. I have no idea what to tell you. I myself was adopted, I have info when I was 5 months old too. But they are from foster parents. I am almost 40 and still have not found mine. But I am in no hurry, The ones that adopted me. I tell you, they are the best parents a child could ask for. They still love me, well my dad, mom past. Depends on were you where born. But think about it before you do so. Talk to your adopted parents, maybe they will help you. They have been there for you. Don't you think it will hurt them if you do this behind there backs? Your 13 yes, you and all the rest of ya teenagers (including 6 teenagers of mine) think your all grown up. The world out there is tough, don't try to grow up so fast. Talk to your adoptive parents, calmly.
2007-09-02 14:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were your adoptive parents good to you, are they good to you? Have they loved you your whole life? They had to right, cause they adopted you when u were 5 months old. For now, respect and honor your 'parents'... its those people who adopted you and loved you all these years... We dont know the circumstances behind why your birth mom gave u up for adoption, but for now, leave it alone and dont hurt the people who care the most for you!! THEY LOVE YOU!!
Your birth parents may/may not have loved you and may or may not have been prepared to raise a baby, but THEY DID THE RIGHT THING by giving you a chance to be with people who love you!! One day, when you are an adult, and you still want to meet them, then find them or try to and thank them for giving you the chance with the parents you have!! Love them, respect what they did, and remember your life as you know it now. This isnt a fairytale and the circumstances could have been worse.
Good Luck and God Bless!! GO KISS AND HUG YOUR MO AND DAD!! They deserve your love and attention!!
2007-09-02 14:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey... I really dont know but I am sorry to say that most adopted kids never end up finding their birth parents. Also I you really do want to find them I think you would have to go onto the phone and call the adoption place. Just one thing I will be there with you if you want to find them... Luv Ya
Ash
2007-09-03 04:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by ashlyn729 »-(¯`v´¯)-» 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know there names maybe you could do a background check on them to find there location. Good luck. My sister was put up for adoption when she was born and we never new about each other and became best friends in high school and found out we were half sisters I sure hope you get to find them
2007-09-02 14:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by stormyblythe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure you have to go through the agency.
You should talk to your adoptive parents about it, you should at least tell them you want to know more about your birth parents instead of trying to sneak around and not got through the agency. They raised you, they are your parents.
Good luck :]
2007-09-02 15:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Cierra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not expect any thing from your "real" parents and know that if your parents now are good to you this might hurt them. Remember who has always been there for you.
I say talk to your parents now cause they probably know how to get in touch with your "real" parents...they are probably dreding the day you would ask about this but they are expecting it.
Being blood relatives does not make someone your family. Being good to you and being there for you does.
Good luck either way.
2007-09-02 14:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Princess J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your adoptive parents probably have some extra information on your birth parents, like the name of the adoption agency-which probably has records of you and your parents.
Good luck finding them! :)
2007-09-02 18:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Echo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are looking for is a very closely guarded secret. I suggest you do it with your parents. When you are old enough, you should ask them to help you find them.
By the way, please don't call your birth parents "REAL" parents. That means you think the people who brought you up are not real parents. You really don't want to inadvertently imply they are fake. Remember, your birth parents gave you life but your parents made you who you are.
2007-09-02 14:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you live in the same city as your birth parents? If so, you can try the courthouse and get a copy of your birth certificate. It should have your birth parents' names on it then, you can look them up.
2007-09-02 17:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by I'mAJamieLawrenceFanGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋