Is it ok for girls to masturbate?

Question

I'm 14 and I masturbate.
I love the feeling and I tried to stop, but I can't. I don't do it everyday. Maybe just like once a week or every two weeks.
Is it ok? I feel kind of dirty after I do it.....

Answer 1

Masturbating much more than ok, it's perfectly healthy; but feeling dirty when you masturbate isn't. God designed our bodies to be sexual, and it's been proven that orgasms have many biochemical benefits.

I started masturbating when I was very young, and because I was never taught to feel guilty or dirty about it, I've been able to enjoy it several times a day, with only positive effects. I never get sick and I my doctor says that my health is far better than than the average girl my age - is there a connection? I think so.

So, not only should you not feel bad about it, you should feel great about it, and do it as much as you want.

Answer 2

Of course it's OK. It's very sad that your parents' belief system is twisted to the point that it makes you feel guilty for your *normal* urges. Perhaps you should question the beliefs rather than the urges. It is unhealthy to fight against your own body and mind like that. Why should you be feeling such emotional conflict over an imaginary invisible spirit being in the sky? Try this: Pray for an actual spoken answer from god. Not some symbolic answer or some event or happening the next day that you think has some meaning, but ask god to actually show up and tell you the answer in a clear way. You will find that god has an amazing way of not actually being there to answer anything. And you may ask yourself why an omnipotent being has such poor communication skills. I will give you a clear answer to all of that: God doesn't exist. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating.

Answer 3

Of course it's OK... it's a great way to get to know your body and to then be able to orgasm with a partner. And for guys, well even animals do it, to renew their sperm. So it's totally natural.

Answer 4

DO NOT FEEL DIRTY. Most people feel dirty and guilty after masturbating, but dont. Many people masturbate daily. If you like the feeling dont stop. It is perfectly natural and heathy. Some people say it causes cancer but that is 100% FALSE! Masturbation is completely safe. Do not feel bad about it. You will find that many more people than you think do it too. Good luck in life! ☺

Answer 5

There is no need to try and stop. Masterbation is healthy, natural and normal.

Enjoy the pleasure rather than worrying about the guilty feelings

Answer 6

I started at around 11, doing it ever since. Just finished about 2 minutes ago actually. Takes me about 20 minutes, so no. I think that its fine.

Answer 7

Anything people enjoy, they feel guilty about later. That's just what's messed up about being human.

But it's ok, every human does it. As the old joke goes, "If God didn't want us to masturbate, he'd have made our arms shorter."

Just don't plan your life around it and you'll be fine, don't worry.

Answer 8

everyone has a certain way of doing it... i do it every once in awhile....but i don't feel dirty. you shouldn't feel dirty because like everyone else is saying...it is very veryy natural! =]
havvveeee funnnn!

Ps:
it is a stress reliever so always do it the night before like a test or something. it really helps
=]

Answer 9

Masturbation is perfectly healthy!
It can help relieve stress, put you to sleep, and other benefits.

It is not dirty at all! Most guys do it, many girls do it. It's the safest form of sex there is.

Answer 10

Damn girl, go for it, It's a natural release of stress. Don't ever feel bad for loving yourself. You need to be able to do that before anyone esle can love you!