Ok I have an older friend that is 10 years older than me. She was my math college teacher and we became friends. We only talk through email b/c we are not that close yet but anyway..she just had a baby a month and a half ago and she has invited me over to see her already. Well I got her baby a present out of generosity.. (I have already gotten her a baby shower present which was an engravable picture frame that was expensive!)..but I was shopping and saw some cute outfits so I decided to get them just because. I have been trying to give them to her and I ask her in email when I can come by and give them to her but she either doesnt answer me sometimes or like the other day, told me to come over in email, but then called me later and said her AC wasbroken and being fixed, and to reschedule for next week. This will be the 3rd reschedule already. Do u think she will reschedule AGAIN next week for the 4th time or do what she says, which was to email me and tell me when to come over?
2007-09-02 13:52:12 · 5 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Sounds like a semi-polite brushoff to me and I'd forget about giving any gifts, baby or not. If and when she is ever ready for visit, I'd carefully consider whether this is a friendship I even want anymore.
2007-09-03 12:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe she's just having some inconveniences. I don't think she's purposely trying to reschedule. Just keep your schedule open, but don't totally depend on anything she says, unless she tells you it's final, and you know that she won't change her mind again.
2007-09-02 20:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a crazy busy life... don't take it too personal. Just drop it in the mail with a note.
2007-09-06 13:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by 1GR8GRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you posted this before? Just mail her the stuff.
2007-09-02 21:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she really wants you to come over or something...or if she changed her mind....
2007-09-02 20:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋