I met this girl about 2 years ago and we became friends. Ever since then I couldnt get her out of my mind and I still cant. I love her with all of my heart and soul and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. We were friends and I didnt want to ruin that by asking her out and maybe it not being the right time or her not feeling the same way so I never asked her out. She went away this summer and came back with a boyfriend...he lives like 7 states away and that sucks because he is in the way without even being here. Everyday I wish that I could tell her how I feel but everyday im too scared. It hurts me just to think about losing her. I would do anything in the whole world for this girl. How can I tell her that I love her with all of my heart and soul and that I want to spend the rest of my life with her?
And how will i know its the right time to tell her?
Please help me. Im no good when it comes to girls.
2007-09-02 13:48:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In my opinion right now wouldn't be a good time, since she has a boyfriend. You could risk losing her as a friend.
Do you think that she may have a clue that you like her more than friends? If you love her as much as you say, I am betting she might think that you like her more than friends.
If you feel the need to tell her how much you care for her.
Start off slowly.... Dont scare her off with to much information.
Do you think she likes you more than friends?
The right time to tell her is when you think she has some feeling for you, in the same way.
Good Luck, faith
2007-09-02 14:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a lot of feeling to keep locked up inside you for so long. You have to let it out, if only to be able to move on and find someone else if she doesn't feel the same way.
Tell her soon for both your sakes. She is interested in someone else right now that is far away - if she knew how you felt maybe she will think about it with you.
When you have some time alone (I suggest a nice walk, talking can be easier when you are walking side by side and you don't have to stare into a person's face) and begin by saying something to the effect: "There is something that I would like to tell you, or there is something I have been holding back from you ...", and tell your feelings. Try to be strong about it. Or, you can try a letter, just try not to get too mushy about it. It may be an enormous feeling for you, but it won't be for her right away by the sounds of it.
Either way, it's time you got it out in the open and hopefully if she doesn't feel the same way, you can still be friends. Do it for yourself so that you don't have to keep it all inside. Bet it will feel good just to get it out.
2007-09-02 21:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋