ofHow can I tell an American white man that I hate him?-simply because he's american?

Question

I was on flickr.com... and there is this idiotic American guy...hes not bad looking...he's divorced...but he will not leave me alone...im pakistani..i dont like american men after all they want to kill us.....i dont understand why he is bugging me and asking me out...i dont live here...he liked one of my pictures...i guess and he did give me nice compliments..but i want to say something really mean to him because he's american and majority of his people want to kill me and destroy my country and my faith..how do i do it? something that will make him heart broken

i love horses will that work...im glad you dont care about us...the only time you people care is when you want to kill us

Answer 1

Ignore him, it's as simple as that. you don't have to be mean...

Answer 2

Ok, so you don't like the guy. Thats ok, it is your right to have those feelings. However, going as far as saying that americans espacially the white ones want to kill you or your people is pplain ridiculous. The united states is a very big place with close to 300,000,000 people or more. The U.S. is compose of many etnics groups from whites, hispanics, blacks and chinese. These are the main ones. However there are many others. Oriental people alone are a lot of them. There are koreans, japanese, chinese, etc etc. Blacks is a genaral termn too. There is american black or African americans who are really the desendants of the slaves that where brought here to pick up cotton among other things. However, there are also other bl;acks from all over the world. Kenya, simbawe etc etc. Hispanics from all over the world too. Not all hispanics are mexicans. I for example am puerto rican which is in the caribean. There are other countries who are hispanics too. Argentina, ecuador, cuba etc etc. There are a lot of middle easter people in the united states. Again from all parts of the world including pakistan. As a matter of fact one of my friends is from pakistan and he practices his religion everyday withought any problems. We also have jewish people who stereotipicaly speaking do well in comedy and as lawers. We also have hindus who I know you guys don't like too much. Then we have the white people. What exactly is a white person. Well, they also come from all over the place. Some are frensh decendant. A lot of them are English, or scotish. Some are from poland. SO even the white people are mixed.

What I'm trying to say is that saying that americans are out to kill you is simply outrageous and it shows your ignorance. Even if its geared toward the whites. I find that insulting and I'm not evebn white. The united states is one of the few places in the world where an imigrant (legal inmigrant) can come and get a job and practice their religion and live a happy safe life. Not many other places can boast the same. We tolerate everybody even though every now and then we rub each other the wrong way. Also, americans, especially the white ones are always willing to give a helping hand to other countries in need without asking something in return. All of what I have said is well documented and you can reseach it yourself if you which to do so which is your right to do if you live in the U.S.

ANother prove of my point is the guy you want to get rid of. The fact that he finds you attractive is a sign that he does not hates you. Why would he try getting with you if he wanted to kill you. Do you thinik is a set up? Looks like a lot of work just for that. Wouldn't it be simply to wait in hiding around some corner and attack you when as you go by? So, you yourself have contradicted yourself in your belief. YEs, I have to admit that we are at war in Iraq. Believe me not all americans are in favor of this war and this can be said of all races. EVen the ones that favor the war do not think in terms of "oh lets kill the iraquis" They think in terms of lets kill the terrorist. Very different. If the "so called" terrorist happen to be from the middle east well thats different. I guest they just happen to be the flavor of the month. Yes, like in any other place there are people who hate other people based on their color of the skin or even their religious belief and what not. Well, the same can be said of your country. This happens in your country all the time. Do you want to know how I know this? Well, because it happens everywhere. Everywhere you go there are people who hate other people for some dumb and stupid reason. However, it is usually a small percentage of the population usually nowhere near the majority. This is how I know. s hit is **** no matter if you are crossing the sahara desert or in the highlands of scotland.

ALright now to answer your question. I suggest you do not turn down a person in a bad way. Why do so. Would you like it if someone did this to you? Ofcourse not. Here is your chance to show that your people are well meaning people. Doing other wise is really poisoning your soul. Is never a good idea to go hating people or mistreating people. Remember the old saying. An eye for an eye and the whole world will go blind. If you don't like the guy well, thats is more than fine. It is your choice and your belief or simply you are not attarcted to him. What I sugest you do is turn him down in a simple strait foward manner. Consise and to the point. You can simply say that you are not interested in him. Maybe you have a boyfriend so you can say that you have a boyfriend or are engaged. Not a good idea to say that you have no interest in him because he is white and you hate white people. That is no better than anybody saying that all muslims are terrorist. See how insulting that is. I tell you, you will get what you put in. If you put in hate then hate is what you will get. If you put in love love is what you will get. Your choice in the end. Besides, choice is what we are all about here.

Answer 3

Hello,

If you react the way you suggest you are not being a good ambassador for your country because you will only cause him to feel hatred for your culture, religion and people. This negative feeling you leave in him will only be passed on to others by him and perpetuate the situation.

I would suggest a different approach such as kindness; you can always let him know that you are spoken for but appreciate his interest. As they say, courtesy and kindness is contagious and that positive response will only be passed on to others.

Cheers,

Michael Kelly

(Canadian)

EDIT - MB, last time I checked out the history of this region, it seems that "India" was the enemy of Pakistan and had clashes several times, supported the secession of Bangladesh, claiming Kashmir and competing for nuclear weapons construction; not the Unites States.

Answer 4

I'm a white man American...

And I certainly don't want to kill you...or anyone...from anywhere...

If you visited me here in America, I would welcome you with open arms and an open heart...

And every American I know feels the same way...

Where did you get such an absurd notion that Americans want to kill you? Here in America...everyone is welcome...I work for Continental Airlines, and our motto is "Diversity & Dignity For All" Other countries and other cultures and other religions are the bread and butter of the Airline business...

My own brother's wife is part Pakistani...and I love her and her whole family as if they were my own...as I would love you if you became part of the family...let that hate inside your heart go away...it will harm your own heart if you let it...

Hope this helped...

Answer 5

I was going to say that not all Americans agree with what their leaders do
then I figured you wouldnt care to hear it so I x'd out of the page with your question
but then I decided to come back and say it anyway even though it doesnt answer your question
I didnt want to give you any answer to your question because your desire is more to break his heart than to take care of any problem
By the way we got two nice Pakistani women in my school, I enjoy their company and so I am happy that their goal in life is not to just break hearts in the most wicked way they can

Answer 6

hey im a paki as well and im in love wth american men i recently got married with a white man and hes the sweetest guy in the world so dont target him out as an american just as a low life guy

Answer 7

americans dont really care about pakistani's, no offense, but its more about iran and iraq right now, with the war and all. and the guy probably is deperate and thinks he has a chance with you.
just say your looking for someone who lives closer to you... maybe...

Answer 8

This american guy think that all asian girl are easy and same as in chinese japanese koreans.

He think that by giving you the lust for money and visa he can buy your dignity/your body and your soul.

Just show him the middle finger and tell him to F*** off.

Answer 9

Hating him is not the answer. Is there any way to block or ignore the guy? Don't get into it with him. Ignore him, don't waste any emotions on him. He's obnoxious, and you don't want to go down to his level.

Answer 10

You are either a troll or an ignorant Pakastani...I suggest you pull your head out of your *** and like people for who they are and not for what you hear about an entire country of people....

Answer 11

Tell him you love camels.
But I think you're just stirring hate.