then last night would not eat dinner and now 6pm will not eat
says whats the point , can't see her self going to school or working or having friends. i tell her all the positive reasons to eat and try to be positive, but i don't know what else to tell her - also tell her i don't want her to end up in hospital or sick or giving up on life - what will help
2007-09-02 11:14:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well something horrible happened with Dad, now too get to the bottom of what it was, She is emotionally upset. It sounds very serious Mom. Poor Girl
2007-09-02 11:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by baja QT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him or her. If she won't tell, there could be many reasons. They may have fought, he may have insulted her, she may miss him, be angry with him, be miserable. If these aren't the reasons, I hate to say this, but it may be more extreme than even that...maybe, if he won't tell, he sexually abused her. Maybe he hit her or did some other form of physical abuse. If he's not that kind of person I'm REALLY sorry for saying it, but if all else fails, then you may have to look deeper into it like that. If it's not true I'm REAL sorry for insulting his trustworthiness.
2007-09-03 07:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she won't tell you what happened, you need to call her father and ask.
If he acts too secretive about it, saying she was perfectly fine to him, then in all honesty, there may be something going on as far as sexual abuse.
Ask your daughter if she thinks going to see a therapist or counselor may help. Tell her that she needs to talk to someone about what happened at her dad's house and that she must eat.
2007-09-02 18:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by its_victoria08 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
really its going to be hard to help if you dont know whats wrong maybe you should ask her dad what happened. a lot of girls worry about their image so maybe thats part of it. or something happened with her friends at her dads house. but for now try to find little ways to like boost her confidence and try to spend time with her if she looks bored or depressed. hopefully you know what she likes to do so try to do it with her. but try to remember she might think of you as embarassing so just kind of chill.
2007-09-02 18:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by liveYOURlife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either you should just ask her, or call her dad and find out what happened
this reminds me of the sisterhood of the traveling pants
2007-09-02 18:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it might be the father's fault or just the fact of her parents living in different locations might make her sad
2007-09-02 18:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by blueg285chick 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why not phone her dad and ask if he'd have a clue what could have upset her...?
2007-09-02 18:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by swissnick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He probably told her that she is the product of a mistake.
2007-09-02 18:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋