ive been with my fella 5years now and some times i cant help but feel bored of him. i love him with all my heart and i dont ever want to lose him but i feel bored. am i horrible for thinking this? anybody else feel the same?
2007-09-02 10:28:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Baby Names
awww, ur not horrible for thinking that. i bet we all think that at some point in our relationships. just add some excitment to your relationship. im sure you'll be fine. good luck (",)
2007-09-02 10:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by *mommy to 3 boys* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should post this question in another section so it will get the exposure needed to give people a chance to answer. If you feel bored, find out what it is about him that bores you. Then ask yourself what you can do to change that. That can cause boredom sometimes. You're not horrible for being honest about your feelings. Since you love him with all your heart & don't want to lose him, then the boredom will pass. Maybe you need to keep yourself a little busier & not spend so much time with each other. I hope you get this all worked out.
2007-09-02 17:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why this question is in baby names, but it is a valid question none the less, so yes, I think it is something that is common in relationships. After awhile, the same routine gets old and although you love your partner, unless you two can talk about the relationship honestly and be completely open, you might find yourself stuck in a rut. You and your partner need to sit down and talk about new things you want to go out and do together and maybe a new thing or two to try in the bedroom- ya know what I mean. You have to find things to do together that make you fall in love all over again. Good luck to you and your lover!
2007-09-02 17:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by Dorothy K. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not horrible, I think it's natural to feel that way sometimes. But if you are bored then you have to take the initiative to make things more interesting. He might be bored too. If that's the case, it could spell real trouble for you. Do something fun together, out of the ordinary. A weekend trip away or something like that.
2007-09-02 17:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you're not horrible. Just bring some more excitement in. Go to a place you 2 have never been before. Go to an exotic restautant. That gives you more excitement.
2007-09-02 17:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by christigmc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natural feeling. Life is a series of Routines
Step up your routine ..
Plan Dates -- you remember those?
We were never bored.
Take up a hobby together
Plan mini vacations
Camp out in your back yard ( weather permitting)
Act Like kids again
One of my best dates with my hubby was going to an airplane museum ---we drew planes, colored them ,
put them in with the other kids drawings. I forgot to mention that I got him to play hookie from work and he got me to be daring enough to "go under the ropes " of the displays and sit in a plane! Stuff we would never think of doing !
2007-09-02 18:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by That_ blue_ eyed_ Irish_ lass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's Ok to feel bored sometimes.
A great way to releive this is to get your man to do something unusual, it worked for me.
He follwed through on my brown hole and I can tell you, the first time he did it to me I was shocked, it still is if he fails to let me know be fore hand ;-) .
2007-09-02 20:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by Chop S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like my ex. Try to go hanging out more. Take a vacation or a cruise.
2007-09-02 18:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not horrible at all don't think that, I suggest trying to up your relationship. Like being more romantic, and planning like suprising things for him that he never would've guessed. Try going on dates more often. P.S. if you liked my answer please mark me best answer please and thank u. If it's possible become my fan.
2007-09-02 17:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to do something to get it going again.
2007-09-02 17:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by Sharon S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋