2007-09-02 09:59:30 · 18 answers · asked by ananomys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is bad if makes you feel uncomfortable!
Talk to him about it or come to some kind of a term where better it be in front of you and not behind your back.
Meaning trust- Without trust you have nothing.
2007-09-02 10:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it isnt bad that he looks at porn . he may be in need of some extra attention from you though or some new things. just be glad hes looking at porn . usually means hes satisfied with you and wont go out on you
2007-09-02 17:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by msi_urine15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if my boyfriend was looking at porn i think it would hurt my feelings. would you consider making your own "adult movie" with your husband and then watching it together?? if so have you ask him?? have you asked him why he watches porn?? does he watch it with you or alone?? if it's girl on girl action then i guess i could understand him watching it to extent because that is every guys fantasy.
2007-09-02 17:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by JESSIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you.
No porn can compete with a real live woman.
On the other hand, the porn never nags me to lose weight or walk the dogs.
2007-09-02 17:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have all the right in the world to feel hurt.. But ask yourself: Does he care at all? If so, he will stop doing.. If not, well, then You could change measures.. Do You feel hurt at all? Tell him why You feel hurt, and don't keep it for Yourself..
2007-09-02 17:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Cengiz K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its not bad that you feel that way. Its perfectly normal.
I would feel the same way. I feel that if my husband has to look at porn, someone elses naked crotch to be interested, he is looking elsewhere for sex insted of me, his wife. To me, his mind is wondering. Fantasizing.
2007-09-02 17:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by Onomatopoeia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start off ask yourself what has changed in your relationship. If he is looking at other women and trying to get something from them then that would be a problem. Most guys will only look at these types of materials whe they are not being satisfied completely. Ask him why he looks at the stuff and see what he looks at. if these types of magazines /movies offend you then ask him to stop. Just make sure to understand why he is looking at these materials, Yelling and/or confrontation will resolve nothing.
2007-09-02 17:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by antonio c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not bad at all! URr husband should'nt be lookin at porn if he has a wife
2007-09-02 17:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why do you need us to tell you how you should feel? If you don't like it, then your hubby should respect that. If he doesn't, then he doesn't respect you. Porn will only harm your marriage in the long run.
2007-09-02 17:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by god_chic 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a normal reaction; you feel somewhat jealous that he finds other women attractive, still, and that other women get him aroused.
He shouldn't do it, but your jealousy won't make him stop.
It's probably best that you leave it alone and be glad that he isn't going out to strip joints and picking up hookers!
2007-09-02 17:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋