how would u explain the relationship called " love " between a guy & a girl ??? i really wish to know ... because at times its really difficult to differentiate " love " from " infatuation "... we feel tat we are infatuated at times , but then we doubt if tats " love "... & at times wen we are in " love " , we doubt if we are undergoing an " infatuation "... how would u know what is the real emotion that we are undergoing ???
a nice detailed explanation would be really nice of u people ... thanx in advance ....
2007-09-02 08:31:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
thank u soooo much people .... i really never expected such wonderful answers ... am really happy & contented with u'r answers guys ....
2007-09-02 08:51:27 · update #1
Love is a feeling which could only be felt. Honestly, true love cannot be explained in words. You can express your love by your positive actions towards your beloved. You would like to buy anything nice you see for her. if you watch any beautiful movie or listen to any lovely song, she will instantly come in to your imagination. You would feel her presence everywhere. and ofcourse you will miss her at night while you are on the bed because that is the time when you are away from the people of this world, alone in your room, relaxed and could plan for ure life, can think of something and definitely she will naturally and automatically come into your mind.
Love is nice. Love means lil sacrifice and lil compromise because that person will have her own wishes, thinking etc etc. so both of you will and have to change eachother for eachother accordingly.... :)
Love is nice but it has almost become impossible to get or find the true love. Family and Life politics have ruined lives thus Love.
2007-09-02 08:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not easy and you need not worry as you grow older it will all be very clear. So that is why I have a simple advice for all the young people. Just be happy and do not worry. Enjoy, Love Or infatuation, time tell all.
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2007-09-03 09:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens really rapidly, it probably isn't love, but that doesn't mean it can not become love. Attraction happens or it doesn't, and you know. Infatuation or that feeling of being "in love" is chemical, the butterflies in your stomach. The love that is going to take you beyond the bed and breakfast and out into the day is going to take time and trust and history and commitment. A line in the first "Yours, Mine, and Ours" movie some 30 or 40 years agostill holds true: Paraphrased, it is that love isn't wanting to sleep together; rather, love is wanting to wake up and live a life you build together.
Good luck.
Love, Mom
2007-09-02 15:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Arby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There three stages of love....The first one is a earthy love,which is controlled by nature,a instinct centre,U may call it is a SEX,..there is nothing wrong in it,if U hv not suppress d sex,but it is of a very low level.Second is based on emotions n mind..nothing wrong in it, if U d'nt demand attentions from other partner.Third is a real love,its like a fragments of flower,which goes in all directions,loves all people, no specific person..even enemy also....But what U asking 4 a love between a boy n girl is a simple physical attractions,governed by a chemistry of body.But nothing wrong in it,love start like that only n if its true,it will travel stage 1 to 3...So it start with infatuation only,n nothing wrong in it.But invariably all love relations fails...why?....becouse both d lovers, instead of giving love to other, both are demanding from other...And none is having...both are begers..standing against each other with beging boul in their hands...But still it is 100% better to fall in love, then, only chance to raise to stage 3..So d'nt worry..go for love,without thinking wether its love or infatuation...I think U affraid of love, so U ask such questions..other wise who ask?..just fall in love....
2007-09-03 02:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After my divorce from my first wife I felt a sigh of relief. Years later when my wife to be came into my life, I felt my heart telling me to ask her out. She responded by accepting. The feeling in my heart was playing with my brain wondering if she and I could have a lifelong future together. After a month she told me she is falling in love with me and I listened to my heart and built on the feeling. The feeling was and is still love. None like I had experienced before.
There is a reason for everything that happens in our lives and the reason for she and I was to have true love forever.
Infatuation does not give you the same feeling of love.
2007-09-02 15:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I don't believe in love. How can a person not be bored living with the same person his whole life? In my opinion, real love is between us and God and nothing else, 'cause at times even our brothers turn into our enemies but God will love us always.
2007-09-03 15:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by (^_^) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't fair! I cannot participate without being offensive. But I will try.
When her needs begin to be almost as important to you as your own needs, when you turn off that football game at her request, when you take out the trash even though you want to throttle her for asking, then comrade, you have found true love. Lots of luck, pal, you're gonna need it.
2007-09-02 16:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by GENE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is relationship which can be felt only.Just like in twins,if one gets hurt other will feel the pain.One need anything.other will sacrifice his or her happiness to see that other person gets it.Love is plain giving without expecting anything in return.Love between any two persons related or not or between person and pets is same to the some extent.
2007-09-02 15:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by young at 96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To love is great and to be loved is the greatest!
Specifically speaking, I believe when one is in love with a girl and an acquaintance or friend of hers compliments her looks or beauty then you feel good and not jealous, then you are in love with her. When she realises that you were not jealous and gets angry then she is in love too!
2007-09-03 03:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by devotee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude ur asking every teenagers story u know... but i think things other way... lyk u goin out with sm1... dnt think ur in love or doubt or smthng... u jsut like her... n u like being with her n stuff...so basically ur always infatuated...
but wen its been a while...n u stil like that person..i mean "she completes u" thingy....its then wen u know it u can be with her for lyk forever... pretty senti shi+ man... ill recommend dnt get into it though ^^
2007-09-05 15:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by dead_adi_walking 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋