I am 19, and prego,
but it was planned. and everyones happy that I am having a child.
and im married to this man, his name is Jake and i am 7 weeks prego and i have a house,job,husband, and i am happy with my life...
but my best friend despises the fact that I want 3 children and starting at 19... what should I say to her??
2007-09-02 08:06:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It is her opinion and she is entitled to it. But that's all it is. As long as you are happy and stable. Go for it. She may just be scared for you, or realizes that you have a new priority and may not bee able 2 spend as much time with her.
I am 21, preggo with my 1st, I have been with my b/f for 4 years and we live together. My best friend did the same thing and now hardly speaks to me at all (not saying this will happen 2 you). But it hurt at first, but then I realized I have a new bestfriend inside of my belly and he is my number 1 priority, Good luck & congrats.
2007-09-02 09:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by .:Adrians' So Handsome:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's none of her buisness how many children you want. She may be jealous of you, or she may be concerned that you two will not get to hang out like you used to before kids came into the picture. If she's a true friend she will realize and support that this is your decision and it's what you want.
2007-09-02 15:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by mimi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your best friend your happpy they care about you but it is none of your concers.
On a side note if you feel stable about your position in life more power to you. Good luck to you and your soon to be family.
2007-09-02 15:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by horse lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her it's your life and that you respect her opinion, but you will do what makes YOU happy. And she can run her life the way she chooses. Tell her that since she's your friend, you would appreciate her support instead of her negative critism. Stick to your gunz! It's your life girl!!
2007-09-02 15:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you are greatful that you have such a friend that has concerns for you but you are very much happy with the plans you and your hubbie have made. tell her that you are greatful for her advice but this is your life to live and that you hope that she will learn to accept your decissions and be happy for you and your family.
and congrats on the baby!
2007-09-02 15:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by redneckqueen19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her "i know you only want whats best for me, but i am ready to settle down and start a family at this age" take it or leave itt..It's really none of their business.
2007-09-02 15:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by bride2be 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could let her know that choosing how many kids you have is between you and your husband. That you appreciate the fact that she wants to help you, but it is none of her business what you decide. It's called BOUNDARIES.
http://www.growthclimate.com/setting-up-boundaries-in-relationships.html
http://www.podbean.com/podcast-detail-episode/75057/setting-emotional-boundaries
2007-09-02 15:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Serena 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to kiss you a$$.I had was pregnant at 19 and married at 18. As long as your happy she just needs to get over it.
2007-09-02 15:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by sunburstpixie 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
"I appreciate your opinion, but it really doesn't concern you".
By the way, I happen to agree with your friend (not about it being unplanned, about starting off so early), but if I was your friend I would never say that to you unless you asked. It's none of my business.
2007-09-02 15:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her that this is exactly how you want to live your life...u r happily married, have a job and a house, and u want to start a family...she should understand!
2007-09-02 15:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by Alexis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋