I'm almost 41 years old and have never kissed a women other than family members. Does this make me totally a wierdo? I'm 100% not gay and i love women.I have dated only one women when i was 21 years old and didn't do anything but watch a movie and go out to eat together.I realize if i stay the way i am i will never be happy when i'm old and by myself. I don't live with my parents and working out at a gym is one of many interests i have.Thank you for your opinions!!
2007-09-02 07:35:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Not weird, just a tad unusual.
It may be you just have not met the right person yet. When you do and the feelings are mutual, you will not hesitate to kiss. If you are serious about not living the rest of your life alone, you will need to get out and meet someone with whom you have something in common.
If you have a special interest - horseback riding, bowling, community service, etc. - join an organization and hopefully meet someone with whom you are compatible. As an example - volunteer work in a hospital is a good place to meet other caring, unselfish people.
2007-09-02 07:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by TheHumbleOne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fitness guy,
You need to quit going to the gym so much and go to the bar instead. But seriously, What you describe is not normal behavior for a 41 year old man. Open up, be yourself, and go somewhere other than the gym, since that obviously isn't working for you.
2007-09-02 07:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it puts you in a very small minority, thats for sure. If you're extremely fat or something, then its to be expected. But if youre not, whats the deal? Too shy to ask women out? I cant totally blame you. A date is like a 4 hour job interview. Horrible.
2007-09-02 07:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out, man, go to the gym, work out, feel good about yourself! If you are seeking a woman, just ask nicely, and be sure to carry yourself with a lot of confidence, it will come my friend.
2007-09-02 08:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to that girl across the street that owns that store "We Sell Your Stuff On eBay".
Then sell your whole action figure collection.
Trust me....this will totally work.
~jaz~
p.s. DO NOT get that wax job....
2007-09-02 08:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might as well start packing for the monastery, because, you're on the fast track to becoming a monk!
2007-09-02 07:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by cireengineering 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have agorophobia, fear of going out in public, and lack of social interest, read alfred adler theory of personality, it's a lfeeling of being less than ,compared to others,low self esteem, go to public places ,not bars, until you notice another person not talking to any one, go over and ask anything, make small talk about his/her life ,introduce your self, don't talk too much,listen then you will know other things to say.....
2007-09-02 07:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by rodgris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i thought you were weird when I read your story few days ago ... same Q again.... I declare you superweird/mahaweird.. ...how many responses do you need for affirmation .. Mr. Fitnessguysforlife!!
2007-09-02 07:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm, this reminds me of a movie i once saw. :)
i say start asking women out. that is a great place to start. hey if you don't ask you'll never go out. so just go for it!
2007-09-02 07:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
They made a movie about you .
2007-09-02 08:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋