I had an abortion yesterday. I was 10 weeks and 1 day along. It was the most painful and uncomfortable thing i have ever done in my entire life... and yet i don't regret it. i didn't know who the father was, it was either my just-turned-16 boyfriend or a guy that raped me while i was drunk. I made a mistake in accidentally... well... making embryotic tissues.
I just want to know if I'm the only one that doesn't regret the decision i made. I wanted to keep it... but i'm just too young. My bf is too young. The situation was f***ed up. I mourn for the loss of a life, but know that the life of something that hadn't even started wasn't worth the destruction of two other lives. does anyone agree?
2007-09-02 05:21:39 · 12 answers · asked by Xenia 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i guess i'm just looking for some support. for women who have been through the same thing. they put me on birth control so this won't happen again... but i don't think i'll be going anywhere near anything with a hard penis for a loooooong time. and i won't be getting pregnant again until i'm married and 30.
2007-09-02 05:35:03 · update #1
You are the only person who can make the decision because you are the one person that has to live with that decision. I suggest you talk to someone like a couselor of some sort, maybe at the local Planned Parenthood, about your decision if you just want someone to talk to. They are very understanding.
Personally, I think you made the right decision. In the first place you made some poor decisions that got you to that point.....such as drinking underage (I'm assuming) and having unprotected sex......but you owned up to your responsibility and made a choice and carried through with your choice. I suggest in the future you consider not drinking and getting some form of birth control (if you are going to continue having sex).
I've been where you are and lived it and now I'm a mom myself and believe me, there are alot of things I've done that I wouldn't want to tell my son who is now a college freshman because I'm not too proud of them. Think before you do things.....I'm speaking as a Mom now. Don't do things just because you think you bf won't love you if you don't do it (I've been there...that's not love). Put this behind you and make some smarter choices for your future. You sound like a smart girl underneath all that....use it!
2007-09-02 05:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jenyfer J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's a little late now. I think for now on you should make better decisions, and be more safe! It is sad but it was the decision that you made, and that you have to live with. You can take it how you want to take it. I know many ladies that have had abortions. I am neither against it, or for it! I just believe that God has a plan for you, and that you learn from your mistakes. God Bless and best of luck.
2007-09-02 05:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is highly personal. Each situation is different. You may spend a lifetime of second guessing your decision. I can't tell you that is was a right decision, or a wrong decision. It was the best decision for you you could come up with at this time. I am so sorry you had to make a decision.
It was the best decision for me at the time. No one should be in that dilemma.
2007-09-02 05:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say. I feel the sadness in you. I wouldn't condemn you as a horrible person. It must be a difficult decision that you have to make.
Learn from this and hope that you won't have to go through this situation again. Best of luck.
2007-09-02 05:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Notredame 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you made the compassionate decision for all involved. You will have other children that you would not have except for this choice. It wasn't bad or good - just something that needed to be.
2007-09-02 05:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, I think you made the right choice... And it was a hard one. One of the most adult choices I have see someone your age make...... When you are older and ready, things will be diffrent. Please dont let anyone put you down for making the right choice for you. I'm also verry sorry to hear about what happened to you...... best of wishes and good luck in the future!!!
2007-09-02 05:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 09:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're comfortable with the decision you made...that's all that really matters. Who cares what we think????
2007-09-02 05:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by Adam G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you telling us? This is personal stuff and personally, I don't agree with abortion. Its a shame, that foetus that was killed yesterday could have been born to be someone special. Oh well.
2007-09-02 05:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by Hope 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Consult an expert for that one.
2007-09-02 05:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋