please help i dont know what i should do now iam 19 and my mom and i own are own daycare so i cant get off the paperwork iam stuck with it she sold my car the other day for 1000 and she got it for nothing but i spent money fixing and paying everything to get it going she just bought a brand new car and wont really let me drive it and now shes saying shes going to pay off this new car and get me a car in a year shes also talking **** about me when iam not around and actting as though shes sick of being with me all the time we are very close and iam not trying to make my mom out to be a bad person iam just stuck if i were to talk to her about it shell just end up screaming at me and iam not wanting to hear it anymore ive never done anything really wrong in my life and she my best friend but i have no car and the job i do have i dont get paid but i get free room and board i dont really have alot of friends due to the daycare iam just really stuck what should i do to get my life back
2007-09-02 03:55:07 · 4 answers · asked by krkyfrog88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell your mom you want a life of your own. You need to make money so that you can buy your own car. I imagine the car she sold that was yours was in her name..
You are caught in a hard spot.
You are working and part owner of a daycare, yet you make no money, just room and board. That isn't right.
Honestly you both need to come to an agreement on wages.
If you are part owner, then you should be getting some of the profit.
Talk to your mom. If she starts yelling and screaming at you, then wait till she calms down and try again.
You deserve better, faith
2007-09-02 15:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is hard to leave the nest but as long as she makes you feel like you owe her something then you will continue to be her puppet on a string. you need to sincerely express how grateful you are for the room and board and all that she has done in your life, but now it is time to branch out. think about going back to school. talk to a counselor at a nearby college and see what types of grants and scholarships are out there. you could work part time even as a live in nanny or something while you learn. take all that you have learned from your mothers business and apply it on your own. she will eventually have to respect you for that. that way, you can be independent and not have to worry about her buying things for you or selling them out from under you because it would be yours. you could try to hook up with a friend or two from high school after you find a job and see if they need a roommate. the possibilities are endless and you will find that after you take that first step, your self esteem will soar.
2007-09-10 02:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by christy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To parents we will always be their little babies but what you need to do is tell her how you feel you need to sit down with her and tell her before she says anything to let you finish explaning your points and then she can give her comments and reaction, if she won't sitdown and talk to you write her a letter, or an email explaining to her that you want her to help you to become more independent likethat if you say that she doesn't feel left out, also tell her that you need to begin to start to get paid for your services if your name is on the contract that is 50 % of the profits there is no family in bussiness business is one thing mother and daughter is a different one is like apples and oranges. I had the same problem with my mother she would want to control my life until the day I sat down with her and talked to her and told her I wanted to be independent and she ended up liking the idea more than me wish you luck
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2007-09-07 03:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋