My girlfriend and I are dating for over 3 years. I am 18 and she is 16. I gotten my girlfriend pregnant. When she first told me and showed me the test, I got really scared. I ran off. This would be my 1 and a half month without being with my girlfriend (she is 2 month pregnant). I know that she is feeling sad and depressed that I ran off on her. I realize something after being more than a month without her. I need to support her and our unborn kid. I've done the biggest mistake. I want her to take me back. I'm still very much in love with her. I think she told her friends and family that I ran off already. How am I suppose to get a good reputation with her friends and family again and gain my girlfriend's trust again? Should I be worried about her filing a legal action (on underage sex)? I am really glad that she isn't seeing anyone as of right now. I really want to be with my girlfriend again and support her. I know I won't run off on her ever again. I know she's the one for me.
2007-09-02 02:50:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You were scared and it's natural...it happens to a lot of men and women. Sometimes women even get so scared after they have their child they don't want to have anything to do with it and they run off because they are scared. I don't agree with that, but it happens...not exactly sure what it's called but there is some name for it. Anyhow, you were scared and it's natural and now you want to go back to her and be by her side. I think that her parents, family and friends should not hate you or treat you different about it and should understand that you are young and scared at respect that you came back to her and want to be by her side. Don't worry about what everyone else is going to think, just go apologize to her, talk to her and tell her what was going thru your mind when you left and tell her you are sorry and realize that you love her a lot and want to be by her side and your childs side. You are a really good guy for wanting to go back to her so do it and don't worry about what anyone else thinks! Some guys wouldn't even go back....don't be one of them, follow your heart and go back!
2007-09-02 05:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be scared.
1. Her parents could file statutory rape on you.
2. You need to go apologize and be a man.
3. You need to support her and the kid, even if you don't, there's legal action she can take in that area too.
4. You knocked up an underage girl, you have a bad reputation anyway.
2007-09-02 09:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to stay by her side she needs you right now more than anyother time imean act like u were in her shoes u would be hurt!!
2007-09-02 10:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by MeWuVU!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go say sorry and tell her what you just wrote that should do the trick
2007-09-02 10:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by NUrDreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks to be you.
2007-09-02 09:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by WonderChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋