I am feeling sad. I told my ex-boyfriend, whom I still love that I need to cut all contact with him in order to move on. He broke up with me half a year ago due to a long-distance and due to the fact that we sometimes argued as a result of the distance. We stayed in contact as he did not want to accept that I wanted to cut it already 6 months ago. But I was not able to move on, I was thinking of him, missing him and I could not accept that we are over. I met him him to talk face and face and we did not have a nice time but he still said that he doesnt want to continue anymore unless we move closer. So I told him a couple of days ago that I need to cut all communication. He emailed me a very nice email back, saying that he's very sad to let me go and that he is so scared of making mistake and that he could see himself with me in the future. He said not to forget him. He said that he will miss my love a lot and he said he is too sad that we won't be talking anymore.I am so sad
2007-09-02 01:50:02 · 10 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You'll be over him and have moved on, long before he's capable of a long-term relationship. Good job not wasting any more precious time in a relationship that isn't right. You followed your head, in time your heart will follow too....
2007-09-02 01:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A chance for you later? There is a chance for you now!!! I think maybe part of you thought if you threatened cutting ties it might spur you both on to deal with this properly.You need to tell him how you feel, that you want to be him, which you clearly do, and work together on how to make it work. He is telling you he wants to be with you but cant stand the long-distance. I know it is a big step moving home or town for a guy but if it is truely love you should do it. You'll regret it forever if you don't.
2007-09-02 08:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by tipsy pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you did the right thing. Lettling him go will give you the chance to move on. Time will heal. There is always the chance that some where down the road ,you two will meet up and restart the relationship, but if you can't deal with the distance at this time, moving on is best.
2007-09-02 01:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Crazymomo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have done the right thing stopping the contact, although its hurt you to do it, you will now have a better chance of moving on. .Time is a greater healer and who knows what may happen in the future but dont put your life on hold,you have done the hard part by breaking the contact now each day will get easier. good luck to u x
2007-09-02 04:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It pretty much sounds like you are severing the link, the bond that you now share. And from what you say I think you should try again and make a go of it now, work something out. Love is a very powerful thing, I know I have it in my marrage.
2007-09-02 02:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Magic 8 ball moment. No one is meant to know their future, you must live for today. If it hurts you to keep in contact, you did the right thing, let him go, to keep your sanity. It sounds like he is keeping you, "just in case". Don't be the one to wait in the shadows, move on with your Now and worry about the later, later! If it is meant to be, it will come back to you. Don't be sad...this is where you are meant to be right now. It's called life... live it!
2007-09-02 02:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cheri >^.^< 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your break up , but move on please........ He keeps saying these things to you to make sure you are still around just in case...........You have to make a clean break........ its very hard when you love someone.... and trying to keep them wont work......... believe me I have been there, many years ago........and it hurt so bad to cut the ties.........but for my health and well-being it had to be done......... I am now very happily married....... and life does go on, and sometimes so much better.......... good luck
2007-09-02 01:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All things pass in the end. You had reasons for teh cut off so keep them in your mind don't let other things clutter...you will be ok.
2007-09-02 21:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by evergreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is what you asked for is to move on now your not happy, gee what did you expect here???
2007-09-02 01:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will get over it
2007-09-02 01:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by andy n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋