I have never cheated in 15 years of marriage and now she is checking my cell phone to see who I am calling. She will not let me out of her sight before she starts calling me and asking when I am coming home? Yesterday I was at the next door neighbors house (married couple) for 20 minutes and she started calling me to come back home. What do I do?
2007-09-02 01:45:06 · 17 answers · asked by Michael D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that's a good question! Have you asked her? Do so in a calm manner so she doesn't get defensive. Perhaps someone saw you somewhere and is misreading it?
If you really haven't done anything, she will believe you.
Either that... or she is having some kind of psychological breakdown. IN either case hopefully a conversation between the two of you will help you figure it out.
good luck
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2015-01-28 09:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when someone starts having a trust issue this late, it is a sign that they are cheating. It is their conscience getting the best of them. They figure that if they catch you cheating or even anything that they could think that you are cheating, they usually don't feel as bad about doing it themselves. The other thing could be maybe shes feeling insecure. Talk to her and find out what is going on.
2007-09-02 02:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three possibilities.
1) She's having, or had, and affair and is projecting her guilt on you.
2) She's feeling particularly insecure for some reason. Either she's gained weight, or gravity is starting to kick in, or you recently got caught checking out some woman.
3) She's pregnant and hormonal. Sure it's a stereotype, but it is also often true.
Good luck.
2007-09-02 02:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me tell ya something and its true..its not you that are doing something wrong its her.She could possibly be having a affair. I used to live with a man who was always accusing me of affairs all the time and then I found out HE was the one having the affair. If not that then you must have done something to make her suspicious or someone told her something. Do you go out to eat at lunch with a female co-worker where someone might have seen you? If not I would look real hard at what she is doing.
2007-09-02 02:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps she is feeling insecure lately....has she gained weight or gone through the change of life? Can you think of any circumstances that would cause her to feel less attractive? Perhaps a little extra attention and building up of her feelings is in order.
2007-09-02 02:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real ? should be what are you doing that is making her suspicious?
Like example are you spending less time at home.
Are you keeping your self busy doing other things.
Are you doing more for other people & less for your own family.
Is the sex less? ECT......
She apparently has reasons for acting this way ask her what the heck is going on.
When she ask you a ? or tells you something don't give her no crap and lies just be straight up about it.
2007-09-02 02:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats great to ehar that you haven't cheated on her.the reason shes checking up on you could be many.its like some have said,she may have gained weight,or not dressing attractive to you and feels your looking.she also may have cheated on you or thinking about it and knows its easy to do so shes thinking you can or will too.i suggest talking to her and seeing what she has to say.not knowing your ages it could be her middle age crisis thing or she may be going through the change.it could be many things.good luck with her and your marriage.
2007-09-02 02:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must be feeling insecure about herself for some reason, has she gained a couple pounds or she has friends who have cheating husbands..... re-assure her with actions that you are more in love with her today than when you married........
2007-09-02 01:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know they say the accuser is usually the guilty one. I know I didn't have trust issues with my husband until I started my affair. Then I got to thinking if I can so easily do it and hide then so could he.
2007-09-02 01:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋