I'm starting to feel very uncomfortable in clubs and bars, or in fact just walking down the street on an evening at the weekend. There seems to be so much hostility. Last night I could've been in three fights for example, but instead just made a joke out of the situation and walked away, but why do people do it? What is with all the attitude? It ruined the night for me and I actually left early so I'm not in the best of moods this morning. Still I keep thinking that I could've dealt with things better. What situations have you had arise and how have you dealt with them?
2007-09-02 00:09:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It's the long licencing laws allowing places to sell alcohol until 3am. Also, the more materialistic a society gets, the more throwaway it gets, and people get treated as things, not living beings.
I work at night, and have occassionally walked into all sorts of stuff, but one way is to look dodgy yourself. Not to be dodgy, but to look it so that you get avoided.
When I go out socially, I always look ahead and check to see if there are any potential hiding places for yobs.
2007-09-08 14:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by Zheia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The youths of today are what we have to worry about. Gangs of kids mouthing off. Adults never used to fear these youngsters. Not so any more.
My head was done in last week when two 20 year old goths were sat in the local park down the road. three 14 year old hoodies decided it might be fun to beat the crap out of the boyfriend. They started to kick the crap out of his face but when she started screaming they turned on her. Kicked the hell out of her face and scalped the poor girl.
He lived, she didn't. How DO you deal with this kind of situation, i do not know.
2007-09-03 07:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trouble only finds you when you look for it or expect it. you get these people everywhere and are quite easy to spot. Ovoid eye contact with them, and if trouble passes you just say "mate i am not looking for trouble all i want to do is the same as you come out and just pull a few birds" and then 9 times out of 10 it will work.
2007-09-02 00:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
too much unbridled aggression today: subwoofers are irritating, rap is hateful, offensive music, people scowl and point accusingly in videos. wear hats sideways in an air of indignation, droopystoopid pants. It seems everyone wants negative attention as a way to GET attention.
It's YOUR generation. I avoid them all.
2007-09-02 00:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Keep away from the city and you`ll keep away from the `scum` that come out at night to upset everyone...
2007-09-02 00:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) there drunk
2) they haven't got good people skills (hence they stay in there own little group)
3) trouble makers
4) losers
5) cant or haven't scooped up a girl (probably why there now pissed with nothing and nowhere to go)
take your pick.
2007-09-02 00:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
safest way in this wicked world is dont make eye contact and get a cab from the venue
2007-09-09 07:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by joan g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid eye contact dude- then when they are least expecting it ,put a glass in their head/pepper spray/ammonia,etc
2007-09-02 01:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello, I walk beside mel on this one.
2007-09-09 06:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did right thing walk away ..read the sittu..its called survival
2007-09-06 02:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by bobonumpty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋